Today’s meditation was written by Cathy Self, Senior Vice President for the Baptist Healing Trust.

     Many of us are familiar with the concept of compassion fatigue. According to one researcher, compassion fatigue is "a function of bearing witness to the suffering of others." In many of the helping professions, healing and hope come from the caregiver’s ability to be present with authenticity, positive regard, and empathy. That very empathy, however, opens the opportunity in the caregiver to not just Joy understand but to also internalize the distress felt by the one who is in pain. A more recent finding suggests that many caregivers may also experience compassion satisfaction. As described by researchers, compassion satisfaction plays a key role in reducing compassion fatigue and in mitigating burnout. Compassion satisfaction is among the harmonies I hear sung by the voice of Love, calling us to joy.

     Compassion satisfaction is, according to scholars, directly related to the quality of the professional’s interaction with colleagues, and may result from seeing one’s job as a calling. When this term was first introduced it was described as "the pleasure a caregiver derives from being able to do the work well, and the joy gained from helping others, especially in the face of potentially distressing work." Some caregivers seem naturally prone to experience compassion satisfaction. Others seem to find ways to focus on sources of pleasure and joy, like the creative arts highlighted this week in this journal, and to practice exceptional self-care. In the best of days it is easy to find meaning in our work, joining with others around a common purpose or value. In the most challenging of days, Love calls us to courageously face and reframe the negativity that may rise within and around us.

     One such reframe is found in a beautiful poem by Fra Giovanni (1513) who encourages us to look to those things that may create in us deep satisfaction in our work:

There is nothing I can give you/ which you do have not;/ But there is much, very much, that/ while I cannot give it, you can take.

No heaven can come to us unless our/ hearts find rest in today. Take heaven!/ No peace lies in the future which is not/ hidden in this present instant./ Take peace!

The gloom of the world is but a shadow./ Behind it, yet within reach, is joy./ There is a radiance and glory in the/ darkness, could we but see, and to see,/ we have only to look. I beseech you/ to look.

     Each of us who visit this journal have the gifts of wisdom and experience in choosing joy – the invitation is open to you to share them with each other in this place. Peace and all good!

4 responses to “Day 220 – Choose Joy!”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Thank you for sharing Fra Giovani’s marvelous poem. I am surprised that it was written in the early 1500’s as it seems so contemporary. Perhaps, that is because spiritual truth is timeless.
    I have experienced the compassion satisfaction you speak of and I believe that is why, as caregivers, we often come away feeling as though we have received so much more than we have given.
    What resonates with me today is the following quote by Kahlil Gibran, “Joy is your sorrow unmasked.”
    When I open to my life, as it is, rather than how I want it to be, or when I open my heart to express what I feel, versus what I think I should or should not feel, it can be a freeing experience. The hidden part of me that lies in the shadows enters into the light of healing and joy naturally effervesces.
    When I am open to accept another human being as they are, without expectations, and with true acceptance, they too may feel free to express what lies hidden in their heart. When this occurs joy is tenfold.

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  2. Rachelle Yeates Avatar
    Rachelle Yeates

    Liz, my mother has a similar saying to the one you shared above, which I draw upon in my weakest moments and happily share with others. It is “Happiness is wanting what you have, not having what you want.”
    If you can embrace this with your whole heart, it is easy to find (and recognize)joy.
    Cathy, the poem is beautiful, thank you for introducing it to me.

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  3. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    I often experience compassion satisfaction at work, helping others. Once I’ve done my part and others are pleased, I get a feeling of euphoria. If I could just get one of those daily – my life would be close to perfect.
    On such a challenging day, this was such a beautiful meditation and to read at the end of my day. Thank you.

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  4. Mareanne Fontenette (MFM) Avatar
    Mareanne Fontenette (MFM)

    “Compassion satisfaction” I now realize is what I have been trying to say to others is what is missing in my new life. Knowing I make a difference to the clients we serve is very important to me, but listening to the pain and suffering of others and not always having my collegues to talk it through with has been very challenging, at times burdensome. Today made me realize how much I miss the days of walking into a collegues office and just sitting down and listening or sharing what was good or bad that day. Coming from a large Health System to a small (myself and 2 men) start up company has proven at times to be very difficult. Meeting my compassion satisfaction need just hasn’t been the priority, working hard to make our company a success amongst all the competition that’s were our priority has been. Thank you Cathy for this enlightenment…MFM

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