"The artist is not a special kind of person; rather, each person is a special kind of artist."

 At age six, I lay ill with the mumps. Fever delivered it's discomfort. 

   It was back in the days of house calls. Dr. Brooks arrived, black bag in hand, his face dressed with reassurance.  The moment his compassionate and loving energy arrived in my room I felt better. 

   The good doctor hadn't administered any medicine yet. It was his presence that I found healing. 

   Of course doctors, like artists, are not special kinds of people. But each one "is a special kind of artist."

   When we enter the presence of others, we raise the light or we lower it depending on the quality of light and Love we bring. When caregivers enter a room in which we sit, the same thing occurs. Their presence will enhance our energy or, perhaps, diminish it.

  We don't take our good news to doctors or other caregivers. We go to them with our pain and our worry in the hope they will dissolve both.

   Because caregivers are trained to diagnose what is wrong, it can sometimes be difficult to draw their focus to something that is "right."

   I remember visiting a doctor once for a physical exam prior to entering a biathalon. After working hard to get into great shape, I was not only hoping he would clear me but that he would compliment me on my "terrific" fitness. Instead, all he said following the exam was, "Well, I can't find anything wrong." He even seemed a little disappointed. After all, our health system rewards doctors for treating illness, not for maintaining our health.   

   The "good doctors" are the ones who affirm our health as well as treating our illness, bringing competence as well as compassion. The good doctors are the ones who listen to our sacred hearts as well as to the ones that beat in our chest.

   The good doctors are the ones who live Love, not fear.

-Erie Chapman

2 responses to “Days 254-256 – The Good Doctor”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Erie, what stands out for me is your insight that “When we enter the presence of others, we raise the light or we lower it depending on the quality of light and Love we bring.”
    Of late, I am noticing my fleeting thoughts and how this raises or diminishes light. But rather than place a judgment, I just observe.
    The encounters with doctors and others in healthcare are often so brief that we can become distracted and risk losing touch. The time factor is a perceived barrier but it is not always how much time we spend as much as the quality of our interaction. (Frequently we can balance this out based on what is needed in the moment). Yet, there is often a cost associated; working longer hours, infringement on personal or family time but isn’t the cost far greater if we do not?
    It truly is an art to bring one’s full presence into any encounter and to listen with your whole being. It is the greatest gift we can give another human being; that kind of intimacy that opens a space for healing (for both the listener and the person in need).

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  2. candace nagle Avatar
    candace nagle

    How do we, in the present economy and fast pace world, create healing environments that allow and foster that healing presence in our caregivers? It is not easy to look someone in the eye and be fully present when you are entering data into a computer…data that may have nothing to do with the present moment at all…but just needs to satisfy the mountain of bureaucratic policies that strangle us daily. Point being, how challenging it is for doctors to foster a healing presence in our health care environment…so much can be missed when our attention is not on the patient and their personal story. Too much is assumed.

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