Separated children"It is easy to turn away from a stranger, the unknown other, from the faceless in a crowded sea of otherness." – Liz Wessel

   In her weekend essay (& exceptional painting) Liz Wessel answered a question that I also address here: What can we do to transform the "sea of otherness" into a land of oneness? 

   Today, millions watch children huddled in a cave in Thailand & pray for their safety. Others glance at the same group, see "otherness," & decide they are not worth prayers.

   Every day & night, caregivers are called to care for "strangers." For true healers, their is no "otherness."

   Many learned of thousands of children separated from their parents by order of our American President & labeled the innocents "a bunch of illegals." Others, including the present First Lady & her four predecessors, condemned this kidnapping.

   The line on the screen above is wrong, one of many lies told to innocent people by government agents. American law does NOT require separating children from parents who may have immigrated illegally. This was an arbitrary decision by President Trump proven by his equally arbitrary decision to unwind it. 

   Another lie came from some officials (remember how Nazi's spoke to Jews) who conned parents into releasing children by saying, "We're just taking them for a bath" & then not returning them. 

   The President relented, not from love but from political expediency. He changed his order because, as he said at a ludicrous signing ceremony,  "I didn't like the sight or the feeling of families being separated."

   Apparently, Trump did not mind causing suffering, he just did not want to see it. Prior Presidents may have acted similarly. Thousands of Iraqi children suffered after W. Bush bombed Bagdad. He can at least claim he was blinded by false information & has a heart.

   Trump lacks one & thus suffers a disability (do some supporters also?) Consider his comments attacking George H.W. Bush. "What was it with [H.W's] thousand points of light," he jeered to a Montana crowd recently, "I never quite got that." 

   Lacking a heart, Trump could not understand. Those "points" represented compassion. 

  We think we are a country of oneness, not otherness. Our Statue of Liberty poem (by Emma Lazarus) says, "“Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free…Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”

   We help those "yearning to breathe free" – especially children, right? That is who we have been. That is whom we may be once again. That is not who America is right now. 

   Trump's cruel degradation of those swimming in the "crowded sea of otherness" has snuffed Liberty's light & rendered us unable to claim that we are a nation of loving caregivers for terrorized children. 

   Can we relight "the lamp beside the golden door"?

-Reverend Erie Chapman

2 responses to “Days 192-196 A Land of Oneness?”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    It is clear to see that yours is an impassioned response to the terrible plight of the most vulnerable immigrants with a strong desire to protect, Erie. Thank you for having the courage to speak out for human rights and reminding us of our nation’s promise.
    My friend Diane and her daughter (who is a lawyer) left for the Dilley detention center in Texas last week to volunteer and help support detainees as well as to provide advocacy. Each day Diane provides an update as to what she is witnessing. I admire all the volunteers’ courage, to take action and to become entirely immersed in the suffering of these families and to listen with the heart of love.
    I wanted to share two of Diane’s poignant posts:
    Dilley Family Detention: Day 2
    I just returned to the “Visita De Abogados” interview room to find the young man (22) I have been partnering with, in tears. He tells me, “this one got to me, I’ve been trying to keep it out, but this one got me”. We just had to tell a woman something that her 14-year-old son could not. The details of how MS18 gang members threatened to kill her if he did not join them. And then he would be killed, like his cousin a few years before. We have interviewed the boy by himself – but she has to know – so that when she goes before the Asylum Officer tomorrow, she will be able to tell the entire story. There is a slim chance that she could be granted asylum – but not the boy. The reasoning is beyond anything I can even begin to say. Hug your family.
    Dilley: Day 3
    Today I start a Crayola Crisis! While we were interviewing a woman with his young son, the boy became restless. I was able to get a small box of crayons and a few pages torn from a coloring book from one of the attendants.
    After the interview, I kept the crayons and extra pages in case I needed them with other clients.
    Another little boy around 8 years old saw them in my hand and asked to color. I sat him in front of a plastic chair so he could use the seat as a surface to color on. In a few moments another child came to the visiting area, and wanted to share. Soon both children went to the children’s waiting area, (a room with a TV and chairs but no toys or coloring supplies.
    Within minutes a stream of little ones came looking for me for crayons – and – at that point I had to send them to the attendant at the desk. This may not sound like a big deal, but as volunteers at CARA, we have to be extremely careful not to cause problems. Luckily, the attendant was a patient young woman who continued to hand out Crayola’s.
    My little 8 year old artist became my buddy for the rest of the morning, following me around and having other children ask me for coloring book pages. I handed out what I had.
    Thirty minutes or so passed without being asked for more supplies. I was sitting in an interview room. — And out of nowhere, my buddy appeared, ran up to me and threw his arms around me, giving me a huge hug. I held my breath. There are camera’s everywhere and we are not allowed to even touch a client other than to shake hands.
    This little moment of pure connection, though prohibited, was the most liberating moment of my time at the detention center. Human touch, kindness and the joyful smile of a child, transcend all ugliness and inhumanity. All because of a Crayola Crisis.

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  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    Very moving and essential to lessen the severity of our world’s cruelty and the shocking lack of compassion in some. What to do? Difficult to grasp a reasonable response but I will humbly try:
    Start by looking around you in your everyday errand running and often self congratulatory activities. Share a smile with others regularly, whether they return it or not. Reach out and share your caring opinions on such media as the Journal of Sacred Work. Then also offer your help, using whatever your skills are–writing, speaking, cooking, cleaning, driving, fixing things, or the powerful skill of compassionate listening!
    Pray for compassion and deliberate acts of mercy to be done by you and others. We are all citizens of planet Earth and by our works we will be known.

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