Reflections, Holidays, Spirituality

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  • The Hospital Curve – Early 1990s

    Aerial Photo: “Riverside Methodist Hospitals” circa 1990 “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” ― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince If you and I were partners in the 1980s… Continue reading

    The Hospital Curve – Early 1990s
  • The Beauty of Orchids: A Caregivers’ Reflection

    Sometimes, on special occasions, I’ve been gifted with a beautiful orchid. Yet once the blossoms fell, the plant would soon follow. Over time, I found myself offering outward gratitude while inwardly cringing; Oh no, I’m going to kill another orchid.… Continue reading

    The Beauty of Orchids: A Caregivers’ Reflection
  • Brave Kindness

    She is clearly kind. But why would this nurse need bravery? The answer comes as a question. How many times across your long career did you say to yourself when the alarm went off, “Do I really want to show… Continue reading

    Brave Kindness
  • It Matters Where We Stand

    Robin Wall Kimmerer, a renowned Potawatomi botanist, professor, and author of Braiding Sweetgrass and The Serviceberry, beautifully intertwines Indigenous wisdom with scientific knowledge. Through her work, she invites us to reconsider our relationship with the living world. Rather than viewing… Continue reading

    It Matters Where We Stand
  • Can Compassion Heal? New Evidence Says Yes.

    What do the elite veterans of caregiving at hospitals like Riverside Methodist and Nashville’s Baptist (now St. Thomas Midtown) know that new caregivers may not? It is more than what can be discerned from the fragment of papyrus (pictured) that… Continue reading

    Can Compassion Heal? New Evidence Says Yes.
  • Unseen Acts of  Caregiver Courage – Two Stunning Stories

    Two Stunning Stories Stories that are shocking elsewhere are so commonplace in hospitals that their meaning is often lost. I re-raise the stories below as remarkable examples of two different kinds of courage. Some I witnessed during my career-long practice… Continue reading

    Unseen Acts of  Caregiver Courage – Two Stunning Stories
  • The Gift of A Letter

    Today I received a text from a dear friend. She wrote: “Thinking of you. I hope this note finds you well. Today would have been June’s birthday. We spent many of her birthdays together. It’s interesting—I’m currently reading a book… Continue reading

    The Gift of A Letter
  • Becoming Weavers of Reconnection

    In a time when conversations feel increasingly fragile and divisions run deep, I am learning how difficult, and how necessary it is to choose courage, compassion and kindness. “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”—Eleanor Roosevelt Choosing… Continue reading

    Becoming Weavers of Reconnection
  • The Alumni Reunion

    What Are We Thinking?:-) Hard to admit, but when I went back to RMH in 2015 I encountered several “old” partners. One of them saw my white hair and wrinkles, did not recognize me and blurted out “Is that really… Continue reading

    The Alumni Reunion
  • Enjoying the Present…or Not

    Yes. We all have done the same thing this nurse during a few of our work moments – or perhaps in many. The wise among us celebrated their calling every day. That is surely how I felt. If you loved… Continue reading

    Enjoying the Present…or Not