Radical Loving Care

  • Becoming Weavers of Reconnection

    In a time when conversations feel increasingly fragile and divisions run deep, I am learning how difficult, and how necessary it is to choose courage, compassion and kindness. “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”—Eleanor Roosevelt Choosing… Continue reading

    Becoming Weavers of Reconnection
  • The Alumni Reunion

    What Are We Thinking?:-) Hard to admit, but when I went back to RMH in 2015 I encountered several “old” partners. One of them saw my white hair and wrinkles, did not recognize me and blurted out “Is that really… Continue reading

    The Alumni Reunion
  • Enjoying the Present…or Not

    Yes. We all have done the same thing this nurse during a few of our work moments – or perhaps in many. The wise among us celebrated their calling every day. That is surely how I felt. If you loved… Continue reading

    Enjoying the Present…or Not
  • Dreaming of Riverside

    Everybody dreams. 90+% forget them.* Not me. Last night another variation on an old dream. In this version, I am President & CEO of Riverside and OhioHealth once again (left in 1995!) In the dream, I am 82, my current… Continue reading

    Dreaming of Riverside
  • Made to Belong

    “We are made to belong.”- David Whyte Whyte’s quote (above) stars in the movie plot of our lives. Scene: California’s Warner Avenue Public School. Time: Recess. Autumn, 1954 “Wanna go out and play?” I asked my 6th grade friend Steve… Continue reading

    Made to Belong
  • First Day-Last Day: More Caregivers in Alumni Hit Parade

    I remember the loving presence of each today. Continue reading

  • RMH & BH Alums (not IBM or ABC Widgets Retirees)

    Hospitals and and universities have alumni sites. Companies do not. What does that tell us? Continue reading

  • The Touch Card of Remembrance

    Note: This reflection is based on the teachings of Erie Chapman and his foundational book, "Radical Loving Care" which has had a significant and meaningful impact for me in relationship to caregiving and the sacredness of our work. Erie Chapman… Continue reading

  • “At Play in the Fields of the Lord”

    “The single most important thing a leader does is to take care of the people who take care of people-to serve those who serve.”  -Erie Chapman One way to support caregivers is to build connection through relationships. Erie modeled this understanding… Continue reading