Radical Loving Care

  • The Healing Power of Love

    The beloved Zen master and peace activist Thich Nhat Hahn offers this wisdom in The Miracle of Mindfulness: “The manner in which you get ready for work, go to work, and the way you are while you are there affects… Continue reading

    The Healing Power of Love
  • Hospitals And Prisons: How Both Threaten Loving Care

    I am not only an alumnus of hospitals but also, as both a lawyer and minister, prisons. What do they have to do with caregiving? See if you spot similarities. Death Row: “You can’t comprehend the hell ,” Glenn, growled… Continue reading

    Hospitals And Prisons: How Both Threaten Loving Care
  • Unseen Acts of  Caregiver Courage – Two Stunning Stories

    Two Stunning Stories Stories that are shocking elsewhere are so commonplace in hospitals that their meaning is often lost. I re-raise the stories below as remarkable examples of two different kinds of courage. Some I witnessed during my career-long practice… Continue reading

    Unseen Acts of  Caregiver Courage – Two Stunning Stories
  • Becoming Weavers of Reconnection

    In a time when conversations feel increasingly fragile and divisions run deep, I am learning how difficult, and how necessary it is to choose courage, compassion and kindness. “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”—Eleanor Roosevelt Choosing… Continue reading

    Becoming Weavers of Reconnection
  • The Alumni Reunion

    What Are We Thinking?:-) Hard to admit, but when I went back to RMH in 2015 I encountered several “old” partners. One of them saw my white hair and wrinkles, did not recognize me and blurted out “Is that really… Continue reading

    The Alumni Reunion
  • Enjoying the Present…or Not

    Yes. We all have done the same thing this nurse during a few of our work moments – or perhaps in many. The wise among us celebrated their calling every day. That is surely how I felt. If you loved… Continue reading

    Enjoying the Present…or Not
  • Dreaming of Riverside

    Everybody dreams. 90+% forget them.* Not me. Last night another variation on an old dream. In this version, I am President & CEO of Riverside and OhioHealth once again (left in 1995!) In the dream, I am 82, my current… Continue reading

    Dreaming of Riverside
  • Made to Belong

    “We are made to belong.”- David Whyte Whyte’s quote (above) stars in the movie plot of our lives. Scene: California’s Warner Avenue Public School. Time: Recess. Autumn, 1954 “Wanna go out and play?” I asked my 6th grade friend Steve… Continue reading

    Made to Belong
  • First Day-Last Day: More Caregivers in Alumni Hit Parade

    I remember the loving presence of each today. Continue reading