God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (2 Timothy 1:7). There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment.” (1 John 4:18).

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  As a small child I sat in church and wondered what God looked like. Similar to millions of kids, I assumed God must be some kind of giant possessed of every possible magic power. A friend of mine grew up thinking God was probably the Civil War general memorialized in a giant statue in the town square. When you don't have an answer, the temptation is to fill in the void with whatever images come to mind. In the case of kids, this can be very scary. It's  amazing how many adults still retain an image of God not dissimilar from Michelangelo's painting [detail – above]. As adults, I suppose it's time for us to put aside our childish impressions and begin to respect God as a great and loving energy.
   But children don't know about this. As a child, it was clear to me and the other little kids that God was all powerful and he had a temper. If I crossed up God I was pretty sure I would end up vaporized by the kinds of ray guns I saw on Flash Gordon.  

   Fear is a terrible thing. I know of no more toxic human feeling. Fear is the father of anger, anxiety, resentment and revenge. There is rarely anything good that comes from fear. Our primitive instinct to run when chased by something threatening is just that – a primitive instinct. The better angels of our nature urge us to act from Love to save life, not from fear.
   I suppose it's not surprising that early Jews, and many Christians, wanted to create a "hellfire and damnation" God. They were seeking to create order so that their civilization might flourish. Fear is the quickest, though not the best, way to bring the errant into line. But, careful reading of the entire Bible reflects a larger truth. I do not believe we are called to fear God. Instead, we are asked to treat God (Love) with respect – to to honor what Love offers us and asks of us.
   The truth is, fear is out of place in a culture of loving care. Enlightened members of all faiths understand that the highest human motivations come from Love and the worst are born from fear. The best leaders engage Love's energy and avoid fear tactics. This is the kind of environment that every caregiver seeks. Loving cultures always deliver the best patient care.
   The best reason for giving the right medications is because we love others and want to heal. The worst reason to give the right medication is because we are afraid for ourselves – that we will be punished by a supervisor or be sued by an injured patient.
   So what about fear? What do you think? Does fear have a place in healing environments?

-Erie Chapman

4 responses to “Day 76 – Why God is Love, Not Fear”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    I agree with your entire premise, yet, in the context of acceptance, I think there is a place for fear in our workplace. Such, that when this inevitable human emotion arises we can acknowledge it, befriend it and offer our hospitality. If we learn how to communicate rather than let fear dictate our response of attack or withdrawal, we can move beyond fear to real communication. At least this is my hearts desire to learn how to communicate about what really matters and not revert to more primal reactions. Unfortunately, we often lacked role models who demonstrated these behaviors and skills in our experiences. It is important to pay attention to the signals that fear arouses in ourselves and others to make it safe enough to express our honest thoughts and feelings.
    In an open atmosphere, caregivers can contribute diverse thoughts into the “pool of shared meaning” which enhances the free flow of ideas and unleashes creative energy. A Loving response is the only answer to fear with the awareness that fear and attack is always a call for Love.
    Happy St. Patrick’s Day! The following is an excerpt from the poem called, “The Inner History of a Day” by ~John O’Donohue.
    We seldom notice how each day is a holy place
    Where the Eucharist of the ordinary happens,
    Transforming our broken fragments
    Into an eternal continuity that keeps us.
    Somewhere in us a dignity presides
    That is more gracious than the smallness
    That fuels us with fear and force,
    A dignity that trusts the form a day takes.
    So at the end of this day, we give thanks
    For being betrothed to the unknown
    And for the secret work
    Through which the mind of the day
    And wisdom of the soul become one.

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  2. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Fear will always be present because as you said it is our primal instinct. When a valued member of a team is “let go” without explanation, the natural tendency is to wonder if I’ll be next. A better response is to work through the fear to a place of trust and love and continue the work I am called to do.

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  3. Deb Gerlica Avatar
    Deb Gerlica

    I agree with you, Karen. It is hard to work through fear when you are always on edge and judged by those who don’t even know you. But, my belief system is there is only one person who can truly judge me. Others want to judge, so they feel better about themselves or so they feel in control. Fear is when you have no recourse– Trust is an illusion. Fear as you describe it Karen, is when you know no matter how good you are , you could be next. That is real. Yes, Erie, like it or not there is fear in work environments.Hopefully, this fear is covered up by the caregivers. I agree with Erie, I have an image in my mind of my creator and I hope he smiles down on me and am thankful he presented me with this opportunity to do what I Love, .

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  4. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    I agree on the issue of fear and see it as being a natural part of life. Unfortunately, greed, jealousy and war are some by-products of fear and it will take a lot to find a positive replacement. For healing, if we can look beyond this dark area, we can experience healing and be free of the negative that fear brings.
    I used to wonder what God looked like, and as a child, every noteworthy character was automatically a white person. My dolls, school books and many figures of authority in growing up. This is not a complaint, only a reflection of what I was led to believe in the media, leadership, and in publications. How wonderful it is to see television, commercials and print advertisements: there are spokespersons and (REAL) people portrayed of every race, culture, religion, and stance / orientation! Now when I think of what God would look like, I smile because I think we are now all working on the same page…

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