Today's meditation was written by Cathy Self, Senior Vice-President for the Baptist Healing Trust.

"Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your mind." – Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882).

    Nonconf In an earlier post, Erie Chapman noted the wisdom in these words: "If we do the right thing, we don't have to justify our actions to anyone else." That statement reminded me of an essay written by author Dr. Wayne Dyer on the idea of self-reliance as reflected in the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson quoted above and preceded with these thoughts: "Society is a joint-stock company in which the members agree, for the better securing of his bread to each shareholder, to surrender the liberty and culture of the eater. The virtue in most requests is conformity. Self-reliance is its aversion. It loves not realities and creators, but names and customs."

     Dyer notes it is possible to find some obscure law or rule or societal tradition to justify virtually anything. In fact when considering many of the wrongs that have been perpetrated on humanity, suggests Dyer, they have virtually all been accomplished under the protective custody of society's laws. He points to the murder of Socrates because the law said it would be proper to do so, and to the death of St. Joan of Arc directly tied to the law. It was once law that women could not vote and African-Americans could not sit at the front of the bus. It seems that laws and rules of society may not be a reasonable place to justify one's actions.

    Perhaps there is a better way, albeit a way that demands courage. Dyer goes on to say "Aspiring to be a more sacred being means shedding your reliance on conformity." He echoes the words of Emerson who wrote "I am ashamed to think how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies and dead institutions." He spoke openly of the long-held but immoral institution of slavery which was protected by law (and still exists today though not visible to most of us): "I ought to go upright and vital, and speak the rude truth in all ways. If malice and vanity wear the cost of philanthropy, shall that pass?"

     Dyer found ways to quietly practice non-conformity; without need of public pronouncements, outbursts, or fighting, he sought ways to courageously live in truth. He asserts if we know it is right, it will be in harmony with spiritual principles. His challenge is to consider a shift from acting in response to outward rules to a consideration of personal, inner integrity. Dyer's challenge is that we not "let the voices within you grow faint and inaudible in favor of that societal conspiracy." St. Paul made the same appeal to his readers in the Corinthian church who had buckled under the pressure of societal conformity: "Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly" (1 Cor 13:13, The Message). It seems truth finds its way across time. Do what you do because it is right and it fits with your spiritual truths.

     Today there are caregivers everywhere buckling under the pressure of societal conspiracy to cut costs at the expense of quality care, to be efficient at the expense of effectiveness, to be professional at the expense of being loving. It will take courage to stand, with Love, to be the presence that says this is the better way. We can find our way to both with truth and in the light of Love if we are willing to courageous, and extravanganly, Love. We can be the voice of Love, and that is the greatest and most courageous justification of all.

6 responses to “Day 225 – Courageous Non-Conformity”

  1. Tom Knowles-Bagwell Avatar

    Thanks, Cathy. You’ve reminded me this morning that as broken and wicked as the human heart can become, I must continue to trust in it’s more profound goodness.

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  2. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thanks for so eloquently affirming the role of courage as one of Love’s expressions, Cathy. Non-conformists (like Jesus and Paul) are forever being condemned, after which people begin to see that these are the ones who have shown us a new and better way.

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Many times my choices in life have conformed to earn approval and acceptance. Choices made at the expense of what is right for fear of losing the privileges of belonging, fear of judgment, non-acceptance, and exclusion. Yet, I seek a deeper truth and that is why I like the Dyer’s use of the word, “aspiring.” It is so hopeful. I can choose again each moment, the only “right” choice. All that a shift in perception requires is that I am willing for change to occur. We live in a world of fear and attack based on the mistaken perception that we are separate from one another. “All choices in the world are based on this; you choose between your brother and yourself, and you will gain as much as he will lose, and what you lose is given him. How utterly opposed to truth is this, when all the lessons purpose is to teach that what your brother loses you have lost and when he gains is what is given you.” ~CIM
    Thank you, Cathy for your wholehearted encouragement to Love, again and again.

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  4. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I love the line, “Aspiring to be a more sacred being means shedding your reliance on conformity.” So tomorrow I’m wearing my “hippie clothes” and humming John Lennon’s tune “Imagine”. I wonder if I’ll be asked to go home and change to meet the dress code.

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Ha! I love it, nah… it’s Friday!!!(if only you were so lucky.)

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  6. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Cathy – I do love your essay and my prior comment was a light-hearted attempt at the continual seeking of balance between living within a society without losing your soul. An entry from Rilke:
    “We are not poor. We are just without riches,
    we who have no will, no world:
    marked with the marks of the latest anxiety,
    disfigured, stripped of leaves.
    Around us swirls the dust of the cities,
    the garbage clings to us.
    We are shunned as if contaminated,
    thrown away like broken pots, like bones,
    like last year’s calendar.
    And yet, if our Earth needed to
    she could weave us together like roses
    and make of us a garland.
    For each being is cleaner than washed stones
    and endlessly yours, and like an animal
    who knows already in it first blind moments
    its need for one thing only–
    to let ourselves be poor like that–as we truly are.”

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