Be still and know_nAs I look back on my formative years, I can enthusiastically say that I
received a great education from dedicated teachers, who had their  student’s best
interests at heart. However, we often learned facts through memorization, which was my
least favorite method for integrating knowledge.

I have often wondered what the benefits might be if we taught
students, of all ages, relationship skills such as communication, listening to
understand, mediation, conflict resolution,  clarification of values, and ethical decision-making,
to name a few.

 In recent Journal reflections,
Erie Chapman has helped us explore a gateway into the present moment by simply
noticing the rhythm of our breathing. Interestingly, if one practices mindfulness, we may notice very subtle changes occur over time. Without any conscious effort on
our part, we naturally gravitate towards self-care and healing.  We experience less stress and fear-based
thinking with an overall sense of peaceful well-being.

As we turn our awareness to this one breath and then the
next, we may sometimes question the effectiveness of sitting with our eyes
closes.  Especially, when our mind is full
of thoughts that can distract us from settling in to a state of tranquility.
 Yet, even when I am restless, afterwards
I notice a greater calm throughout my day.

Regardless of the seeming quality of my contemplative time,
there is a deeper knowing that this practice is essential for my well-being, and so I
return again and again each morning to sit quietly and notice the ebb and
flow of my breath.

This following video illustrates the remarkable
transforming power of meditation. I applaud the teachers  of Visitacion Valley Middle School, San
Francisco for initiating a creative and innovative approach to helping
students cope with extraordinary life challenges.

~liz Sorensen Wessel

Above watercolor by ~liz

 

5 responses to “Days 259- 260 Be Still and Know”

  1. Woody Wessel Avatar
    Woody Wessel

    A nice Low-tek answer to stress of living in Hell. I hope the kids stick with it,do well in school and get out of there.

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  2. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    What a remarkable story you shared with us Liz in the Visitacion Valley School. May that movement spread far and wide. Liz, as soon as I saw your ‘stilling’ painting something in me wanted to pause and be because of the painting that was gentle, inviting and refreshing. Liz, you may be aware that the focus of Joan Chittister’s reflection this month in the Monastic Way is “Come … Rest a Bit”. As usual, Joan has many gems to share with her readers one of which is, “No there is no such things as putting life in ‘reverse’. But unless we learn to put life in ‘stop’ periodically, there is no way to keep it in ‘go’ as well as we should. Thank you Liz.

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  3. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    This is remarkable, Liz. Thank you for helping us refocus on a practice that means so much even as it looks to so much of the western world like “doing nothing.” Meditation helps us “do” everything in a more fulfilling way because it helps us to discover how to be. Thank you as well for your masterful watercolor.

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    In listening to a clip on the W/e edition of NPR, musician Brian Eno shares his experience of getting together with friends weekly yo sing and the benefits of doing so. What I found interesting is his closing comment, “So I believe in singing to such an extent that if I were asked to redesign the British educational system, I would start by insisting that group singing become a central part of the daily routine. I believe it builds character and, more than anything else, encourages a taste for co-operation with others. This seems to be about the most important thing a school could do for you.”

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  5. candace nagle Avatar
    candace nagle

    Thank you, Liz, for your reflection upon meditation. It is encouraging that there is no ‘right’ way of doing this and that, even when the mind continues to be noisy throughout the meditation, there is still immense benefit. I have experienced this as well. Also, when I sit, and find my mind is crowded and anxious, the breathing can ease my body. If not for sitting, I might not have been conscious of my anxious state. It really is a time to check in and feel what is happening in my body and mind. I imagine this must be a huge benefit for these kids…a way to secure their grip on the reigns of their lives enabling choices instead of reactions. I will pass this along to my daughter who teaches 6th grade in a public school. This is so empowering.

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