Three sticks converging - copyright erie chapman 2012  A student once asked a great master, "How do you practice Zen?

   "One thing at a time," the master responded.

   How can we possibly live like this? The world screams at us to do so many things at once.

   One day years ago I spent a shift with Nancy, an intensive care nurse at Riverside Methodist Hospital in Columbus, Ohio. Her task work was overwhelming.

   She was constantly adjusting a maze of lines that hung like vines amid a forest of I.V. poles. She checked the oxygen levels of her intubated patient, adjusted his pillow, checked his back for bed sores, monitored his blood pressure, heart rate and oxygen level, sometimes speaking to her unconscious patient about what she was doing.

   She performed her tasks with such rapidity that she seemed to be doing some of them simultaneously.

   Then she did something I didn't expect. She withdrew a comb from the drawer beside her patient's bed and combed his hair. Her frenetic activity turned calm. She became a study in Zen beauty.

   Later, it occured to me that perhaps this caregiver had been practicing Zen all along. It was I who felt frenetic. She, on the other hand, seemed as smooth and skilled as a ballet dancer. Her hands graced the landscape of her critically ill patient like a mother attending the unspoken needs of her newborn.

   What did the Zen master mean? He was speaking, perhaps, about graceful living.

   When Liz Wessel creates her mandalas she is perhaps letting other energy move her hands. Every fine artist like Liz knows that trying to force creativity blocks it.

   But, don't we have to do something? After all, the nurse manager lurks just down the hall. Malpractice lawyers never forgive. Patients and their families expect magic. Mistakes are not allowed.

   What Zen teaches us is that we need only do one thing in each moment – train ourselves so that when Love's energy comes through us we will have the skill to practice it in healing ways.

   Zen is powerful because it enables us to focus all our energy in the way that a laser, by concentrating light, increases its power. It reminds us to slow down and find our inner quiet. Only then can Love find its most precious pathways through our hearts.

-Erie Chapman

3 responses to “Days 299-300 – The Zen of Loving Care”

  1. ~liz Avatar
    ~liz

    This reflection could not come at a better time as it is such a helpful reminder, Erie. When things seem overwhelming it really does make a difference to return back to our northern star, mindfulness, and one step at a time.
    This moving story that you shared, highlighting the care Nancy provided illustrates an expert at her craft; her art. She glides along making everything seem so easy, yet her skill has taken years to develop, involves great skill, knowledge, intuition and is rendered with a Loving touch.
    Wow, you surprised me with your mention, thank you Erie for this gift. What strikes me about your photo is the golden color & greening amidst what is grey and lifeless; such a lovely metaphor and a Zen moment in and of itself.

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  2. Deacon Dan Avatar
    Deacon Dan

    After reading this, the phrase “Be still and know that I am God” takes on a new meaning, perhpas it is less able being contempletive and more aobut being focused. The comb becomes the icon.

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  3. Maria Doglio Avatar
    Maria Doglio

    Yes, Erie, I think “multitasking” in our culture is greatly over rated!
    When we are still, we more easily can listen, hear and feel what the pure love of the universe is guiding us to do. Thank you for your lovely essay.

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