"If being beautiful in the eyes of the Creator means being ugly in the eyes of the created than it's worth it." – author unknown 

Broken fence 3a copyright erie chapman 2013   Made "ugly" by a neurological condition that riddled her face and body with bumps, Lois was one of the most beautiful women I ever met. Each day she brought smiles to the people she encountered in her cashier's job.

   She calmed distressed family with her soothing voice and touch. And she shared with each of them her "joke of the day" as they filed past her in the hospital cafeteria.   

   No one ever seemed to mind their wait in line because Lois, for a moment, parted their clouds of worry.

   A glance at Lois might have left some people feeling that the face of God had been hidden from this woman.  Instead, Love's light shined through her eyes.

   She seemed to know this – that she was beautiful "in the eyes of the Creator." And she soon began to look beautiful to those who experienced brief but sacred encounters with her

   The good of the world
is dependent not on the speeches of the great but on the ordinary actions of
each of us. It is in your "ordinary moments" that you have the chance to bring kindness to strangers and friends alike. Then, as Love flows through you and circles back through your heart, you feel Love's grace. 

   What of the hard experiences you endure? Can you love the old man who is
cursing you? Can you rise from your fatigue to help the woman suffering down the same hall you have already traveled a hundred times during your shift? Can you sustain patience in the presence of a mean-acting supervisor?

   Your endurance depends more than any thing else on one thing: Do you see Love in your mirror?

   Only self-love – the acceptance of God's Love – can enable us to give Love when the world leans on us with all of its weight. Only Love enables us to see Beauty in a broken fence, an angry stranger, or in a face pockmarked with disease.

-Erie Chapman

4 responses to “Days 77-79 – The Hidden Face of Love”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank for reminding us of this essential truth, Erie. There is Beauty in the ordinary, even in some of the most wretched moments, perhaps when we allow, rather than work so hard to control or mold things to conform to our preconceived notions. Yes, it is in that place of acceptance that we glimpse the true beauty of one another.

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  2. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar
    Cheri Cancelliere

    Erie,
    Thank you for the story of Lois, who is a truly beautiful soul. God certainly sees “beauty” through different eyes than the world. Let us never be too busy to see his face in those whom he treasures. Yesterday, at the end of a long and troubling day, I passed a tiny elderly woman in a wheelchair. She called out to me saying, “You look like you need a hug.” As we hugged, she said “God bless you”…so simple, so pure. For one moment, she was an angel in my weary day. May I learn to be an angel to others as simply and sweetly.
    Blessings!

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  3. Anne Nguyen Avatar
    Anne Nguyen

    Thank you, Erie, for reminding us who is the center of everything and everything and everyone is beautiful through His eyes. Let us learn to be humble and appreciate the gift of life and see the beauty in everything and everyone as He does.

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  4. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Thank you, Erie, for this wonderful post.

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