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A first year medical student scans a corpse. "Where do I start?" he ponders. The professor will give instructions. A good professor will model why this work is sacred knowing there are no instructions for the sacrosanct.
Love is taught best through personal example, presence and stories.
A picture matters because it suggests a story.
All beliefs honor story-telling. Why did Jesus teach in parables when he could have used only commands?
"Who is my neighbor?'" a lawyer asked Jesus. He could have answered, "everyone."
Instead, Jesus understood story-power. He told the lawyer the parable of the Good Samaritan.
Some have said that a parable is an earthly story with a heavenly meaning. Yet, even though the meaning is "heavenly" stories help you live Love's mystery on earth.
Stories, allow you to "get it" on your own. Jokes aren't funny if you don't get them and can be hilarious if you do. Stories that help you "get it" can trigger epiphanies.
When a recovery room nurse speaks to an unconscious patient she humanizes both him and herself. When a housekeeper puts down her mop to hold the hand of a screaming patient she shows you compassion. When you tell these stories you help others learn Love.
But, do you have what Jesus called "ears to hear?" If you cannot hear Love's voice you might pick up a patient's hand like a robot.
How does Love cradle a patient? Imagine the person's deeper story. This is someone's mother or brother or friend.
Listen with sacred ears to the stories of others. You will find what cannot be taught with instructions: Love.
-Erie Chapman

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