Pope & disabled boy  Humility calls for obedience as well as compassion. The purest discipline grows from Love.

   The human spirit is strong. The human ego can often be stronger. 

   Why is humility so important to the quality of human life?

   As part of an obedience ritual,  4th century monk Abba John was ordered to water a dry stick each day. He did this for three years, hauling water a long distance from an oasis in the desert in order to obey his instruction. 

   At the end of three years, the stick miraculously blossomed. The monk's spiritual father showed the blossoms to the other monks: "Behold, the fruit of obedience," he told them.

   If the stick had never born fruit the story would still be important. True humility expects no reward.

    Pope Francis exhibits a Christ-like humility. In his first months he has done some "shocking" things: embraced horribly deformed people, washed the feet of prisoners, hugged disturbed children. We expect this from important clerics and often do not see it. Consider how hard it is to look at the deformed man (below) much less to wrap your arms around him.

   What does this mean for us? Humility is not about self-degradation. It is about the difficult work of honoring the needs of others even when it seems as hopeless as watering dry sticks. The prisoners were not freed after the pope washed their feet. The deformed man was not cured. Pope Francis demonstrated unconditional love and his example calls us to do the same. 

  Pope hugs disfugured man  Caregivers are often called to water sticks – to care for those who will not recover, to love those who will surely die. The "sticks" bloom because of holy humility not plain water.

    The guidance of Love is never pointless. The call of Love is never false. 

    Love requires humility. When you live Love, you always succeed.

-Erie Chapman. 

8 responses to “Days 162-166 – The Practice of Humility”

  1. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    Thank you for this meditation Erie. Love.

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  2. sbeng Avatar
    sbeng

    Thank you Erie for this reflection. “The stick bloomed because of holy humility and not plain water”. This brings me to Matt.5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”. Pope Francis has given us examples of what living Love is. As caregivers we are called to attend to different types of sick people and sometimes to the tasks which we do not really like to carry out and have no choice. It is alright to humble ourselves and live Love “the sticks will bloom ” and we will succeed.

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  3. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    We have a need to get recognition, and yet, when we do something without thought of reward, that is the biggest blessing and joy.

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I think the story you share is a lovely metaphor for perseverance. Often our daily actions do not seem to make much of a difference. Yet, over time we may notice the cumulative effect of our actions. Yet, you take us a step further by calling out that even if the stick does not blossom, a loving intention whether seen or unseen bear’s fruit. . This is a beautiful truth to embrace to surrender to God’s love for us “consciously, prayerfully, and daily.
    Thank you, Erie.

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  5. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    Truly beautiful and empowering, Erie. Thank you. Most of the time we simply feel that we are watering sticks and it is a wonderful blessing to be reminded that we are watering them for love alone and that obedience brings an abundant harvest. All that I do, I do for Christ, so I am amazed whenever anyone notices although God notices every moment of the day and that is more than enough.

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  6. Maureen McDermott rsj Avatar
    Maureen McDermott rsj

    How encouraging and inspiring Erie. May your words energise and empower me, especially when it seems that I am surrounded by dry sticks. Thank you.

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  7. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    Oh yes, Liz! True humility requires daily surrender to keep watering the dry sticks that do not bloom. They will bloom in God’s kingdom and it is for his sake, not our own, that we continue our work of obedience and love.

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  8. xavier espinosa Avatar

    Humility is one of the gifts that comes to us as we venture on the road that we embark on as we tread our way to the pinnacle of coming into wisdom. The joys of gaining and losing, the patience of practicing tolerance and accepting the lesson that is bestowed on us either by success or defeat, comes to us in the realization that what we gift to others and our spirit, is the outgrowth not of “overpowering”, but of fostering an environment of cooperation and shared sustainability. Just as the dried stick inertly contained the capacity for regrowth, the the spirit of faith in ourselves and others proves that despite all the false starts and promises that we face in our struggle to regenerate ourselves and others, we learn that being steadfast in our practice of believing in the goodness of the person overcomes any disillusion that tries to convince us that we can not be better. Many of our dreams can be crushed by those who tell us that we can never be is ultimately disavowed by believing in acknowledging the power that comes from applying the patience and humility that holds our dreams intact by knowing that we will successful by virtue of our integrity.

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