Chip 2 with pals @ Cactus GulchIn forth grade Larry Anderson, noticing I had forgotten my belt, sneaked up behind me and tried to pull down my pants. The whole class stared. Then the whole class laughed.

Today I laugh too, of course. Back then, I was closer to crying. It was my first public experience confronting the hyena named humiliation. 

Sentient beings, we carry scars as we walk the world seeking healing in kindness, in a gentle dawn or in the soft bed of evening.

You know that if you do something wrong or foolish before others they will dress you in sackcloth. Under the guise of the myriad lynch mobs society creates, they will target you with one of life's most painful conditions.

Other than hopelessness, humiliation may be the hardest brew to swallow. Its fiery taste scalds the ego & burns the skin red.

It scares the heart into hiding. Yet, this agony can enable nobility. 

Power-holders know myriad ways to demean. Organized religion has demonstrated a peculiar talent at creating methods of humiliation. It needs supreme punishments to keep its perceived miscreants in line. 

The Puritans favored casting heretics into stocks, branding adulterers with a red letter & dunking witches in ponds. Amish & Mormons, Catholics & Protestants, Jews & Muslims all have their ways of humiliating "non-believers."

Hospitals unintentionally degrade the ill with patient gowns. Society intentionally punishes convicted criminals with striped uniforms.

Where is Beauty? Where hides God's Love? 

Two millenniums ago Romans (& some Jews) wondered how to humiliate a heretic of heretics, a man who arrogantly claimed to be the Messiah.

Since Jesus claimed to be God's prince, Pontius Pilate's minions mocked him with a crown of thorns & made him carry his own cross to his own crucifixion. Above his head they nailed a sign ridiculing him as "King of the Jews."

Jesus met calumny with nobility & his death with grace. He replaced humiliation by men with humility before God and thus offered a supreme example of strength. Thus, Peter chose to be crucified upside down.

Shelley wrote, "Thy light alone – gives grace and beauty to life's unquiet dream"

Can that light above anchor your boldness against the dark of a sometimes unforgiving world below? 

-Erie "Chip" Chapman 

Snapshot: "Top row – Chip & Ronnie. Bottom row – Martha, Wheelis girls & Jill"

4 responses to “Days 233-237 – Salvation for what is hard to bear?”

  1. Teresa Reynolds Avatar
    Teresa Reynolds

    I’ve always come to the Journal of Sacred Work for inspiration even though I’m not in the caregiving field. Humiliation is unbelievably hard to bear. I wonder if it’s because the emotion puts us at cross purposes with the light of who we are. Humiliation is like hitting the dimmer switch on the bright light of existence, I love how you phrased it –“scares the heart into hiding”. I am so thankful for the eloquent reminder her of how Jesus met “calumny with nobility and his death with with grace”. This is such a heart provoking reflection, thank you.

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  2. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    What a beautiful, truth-filled message that demonstrates the real meaning of love in God’s upside-down kingdom.
    “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
    Thank you, Erie, for blessing my day and inspiring me to remember that without love we are nothing.

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  3. Maria Doglio Avatar

    I believe the beauty and love is always there. We don’t see it when we are out of alignment with source, but when we bring ourselves back into alignment, there it is right in front of us, (and years later you can laugh!); it’s all around and within–never lost at all! We are powerful beings experiencing life as part of source energy. The contrast (negativity) is part of our life to teach us what throws us out of alignment–as we overcome and let go, life flows. When we don’t push against the contrast, but stay in alignment, the negativity sorts itself out. It’s all a matter of where you put your focus – thank the bully for being the teacher to show you the contrast that you needed to overcome in order to expand your spiritual experience. This wisdom was handled to me on a silver plate big time over the last year, and it’s my sacred practice of being now. (not always easy!)

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  4. sbeng Avatar
    sbeng

    Erie: Thank you for reminding us that Christ “met calumny with nobility and his death with grace”. In life’s trials our trust is in the Lord knowing that He is the one in us taking us through “the valley”. His Love in us conquers all. Humbling ourselves before our Almighty takes patience and perseverance. His Love conquers all. Victory overrides any negativities heaped on any individual.

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