Erie by min2Among countless poems only a few have been life-changing for me. One came from my son when he was a senior in high school & shared Robert Frost's iconic, "Two Tramps in Mudtime."

The closing stanza caught his heart & mine. Perhaps they also shaped my concept of the sacred encounter which happens when love meets need. 

My object in living is to unite
My avocation and my vocation
As my two eyes make one in sight.
Only where love and need are one,
And the work is play for mortal stakes,
Is the deed ever really done
For heaven and the future’s sakes.

In one way or another hospital & hospice caregiving is always "play[ing] for mortal stakes." But caregiving is only fulfilling "where love & need are one." 

Importantly, the merger of love & need are always at play in any fulfilling "victory." The secret lies in the hearts of each individual who chooses to unite avocation with vocation. Where "two eyes make one in sight." 

You achieve this union the moment you see your work as a calling, not a job.

-Erie Chapman

2 responses to “Days 20-24 – “Only When Love & Need Are One…””

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    To see our work as a calling is what enables us to persevere on difficult days. I so appreciate the connection forged between you & your son in the sharing of Frost’s inspiration, which translated into your life’s calling; and in turn you have inspired thousands of caregivers to discover this “one sight”.
    Thank you for this beautiful gifting, Erie.

    Like

  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    Powerfully moving statement that has motivated me ever since my epiphany in 1980 aged 40 when I heard God’s clear call to “Help them Grow”. Ever since, though often in difficult channels to fathom, this call has led me on to help others in career coaching, using my humble God given gift of empathy as best I can in ministry. Whenever this happens, I see wholly what purpose means in a life fully and well lived.
    Thank you for reminding me of my calling which is still loud and clear in my 80th year on planet Earth, our island home!

    Like

Leave a comment