GOOD & EVIL VERTICAL erie chapman 2021   Until my cousin, Dr. Terry Chapman, sent me this word I had never seen it. No wonder. It is a mouthful to say & remember. But, its meaning could not be more important.

    Agathokakological means, "composed of both good and evil." Could there be any better description of human beings? Like the photo-painting, we have dual natures with countless shades in between.

   Most, but not all, of us spend our lives trying to be good. Many become geniuses at trying to justify their "evil" actions to fit "good's" ever metamorphosing definition. 

   Our former President became a self-described expert at this game by never admitting any wrong so he could claim to be the "goodest" person ever.

   Millions have trouble admitting bad behavior because of an ultimate punishment: Forfeiting their ticket to heaven. Catholics can dodge this through confession & absolution. But ya gotta join to win. 

  Because the consequence of mistakes may mean life or death committed caregivers are tougher on themselves than anyone.  

   Yes. We must sustain our quest. Can we make our campaign for goodness reasonable & reachable? 

   Shame (versus guilt) undermines Radical Loving Care™.

   Here's one great word usage online, "When any project dominates your life for a sizeable length of time…you have to accept the agathokakological nature of the beast." 

   Since caregiving can dominate our whole life it is wise to accept that no one (not even doctors) is perfect.

-Erie Chapman

Photoart: "Good & Evil" – Erie Chapman, 2021

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2 responses to “Days 46-50 Agathokakological: The Only Word Describing Human Nature”

  1. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    Perhaps it is in our vulnerability that we can truly begin to recognize, acknowledge, and learn from our mistakes, transform pain into a new way of seeing and of being in this world. I think it begins with cultivating compassion; for ourselves and others. Of course, accountability and restitution are a part of bringing the darkness into the light.
    “God is the Love in which I forgive, God is the Love in which I am forgiven.” ACIM

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  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    I will not write the word representing good and evil in one person, place, or thing. All caregivers have this characteristic.I certainly personify the word’s essential meaning. Sometimes I am kind in all my actions, and yet, occasionally, while driving, you would be suprised how judgemental I become. All of us can truthfully say, “God is not done with me yet!”
    Striving for being a better person is a worthy goal but it takes persistence, reflection, and commitment. Think of just one attribute you would like to shed; say it over to yourself; reflect on how you might do this; and pray for help from everyone, particularly, God!

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