Mamboman1 photo This morning, Reverend Dr. Clay Stauffer told one of his favorite stories:  Although a prize-winning greyhound was still in his prime, he suddenly decided to quit.

   "Why?" his owner asked. "Are you tired out? Do you need better food? Are you injured? Are you afraid of losing? Do I need to pet you more? Do you want more time off?"

  "None of those reasons," the greyhound said. "I'm quitting because I just discovered that the greyhound I was chasing is fake."

   Like any good parable, this one has layers of meanings. The greyhound had been giving his best self to something he discovered was meaningless.

   "It's all about the money," I have heard countless leaders say. 

   They are wrong. Such leaders never bring out the best in others because caregivers are just "units of expense" to them.

   As one top notch nurse told me, "Meaning brings out my best. That means helping others no matter what."

   Obviously, professional caregivers need to be paid. Yet, if a caregiver is only in it for that you are unlikely to experience their best. 

   No amount of money can fill the void created when a caregiver discovers "the rabbit is fake."

-Erie Chapman

2 responses to “The Greyhound & The Rabbit: What Brings Out Your Best? – Days 192-196”

  1. Annette Welker Avatar
    Annette Welker

    So many of our healthcare leaders have us chasing the fake. Loved this!

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  2. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    I think most of us want to live a life of meaning and purpose, otherwise I agree Erie, life loses its spark; its richness. Rather than being individualistic about my approach to life, more and more I am recognizing the value of community. The importance of cultivating relationships, collaboration and how we are strengthened in community.
    I think I have veered off a bit… but these are the thoughts that are surfacing for me as I read you helpful essay. Thank you for the many ways you have nutured meaning and purpose in my life and in the lives of so many caregivers, Erie…the ripple out effect is continues to expand out in so many beautiful ways.

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