Paul_Simon_at_the_9-30_Club_(b)   Whether or not you wish it, your life will leave its legacy.

   As I watch friends retire I know that the vast majority will leave a great legacy. Especially the caregivers.

   A given nurse, therapist or housekeeper touches many lives a day. Not just their patient but families, fellow caregivers, visitors and the family they return to after work. 

   We cannot control what anyone says about us; at work, or anywhere else. There are even debates about how much of our behavior we "control."

   What Marc Antony says in Shakespeare's Julius Caesar is true of all, especially the famous. “The evil that men [sic] do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones.” 

   On CBS Sunday Morning, Paul Simon was asked about his legacy. "I don't care," he answered. Perhaps, he understood he could not control it. But the correspondent followed up: "What about your music?"

   "The music has its own life," Simon continued. "If it lives on, it was meant to. If not, well, it's out of my control."

   Whether our legacies last years or seconds we want, like Simon, to be able to say that our "music", our presence in this world, enriched the lives of others. That is why career caregivers are so far ahead of the rest of us.

-Erie Chapman

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2 responses to “Automatic Legacies – Days 177-181”

  1. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    For many of us, perhaps the legacy we leave is a very intimate one… impacting those whom we have loved, offered our presence, or received the blessing of their accompanyment in times of need… who will know only those whose hearts were touched by their loving kindness.
    Nouwen’s wisdom comes to mind…”We are all wounded healers one to another.”
    Simon seems to have come to a place of letting go of worldly concerns to enter a deeper relationship and spiritual awareness of what natters. Offering our authentic self, and letting go of the expectations from the outside world…
    perhaps to continually grow, transform and live our best lives for the benefit of others.

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  2. Erie Chapman Foundation, Nashville, Tennessee Avatar
    Erie Chapman Foundation, Nashville, Tennessee

    Thank you, Liz. Yes. Simon sets a good example. And we are all wounded…especially healers.

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