Martha's Heart   It is among the nicest gifts I've received. It is an image of what one incredible woman can do with a piece of glass – and words of Love.

   "I made it so beams of different colors would shine through…like the light you bring to me and so many others," my younger sister Martha wrote in the accompanying card.

   It sounds self-serving to quote a note in which some says you're great. But, I overcame that worry when I realized this gift is about Martha's heart, not mine. 

   My sister is one of the most giving people I know. Those who read this column regularly know that she worked at the front desk of The Toledo Hospital for more than thirty years. Before that, she took care of four-year-old children in different nursery schools. Today, she still volunteers to help autistic children through the charity Agility Angels.

   Once anyone meets Martha they remember her because of the light she brings into their hearts. I recall the day she was born and she's been brightening my life ever since (except when she beat me at games of "Go Fish.")

   How many of you remember your nursery school teacher? To this day, students of Martha's from thirty and even forty years ago approach her with thanks for brightening their childhood.

   Over more than three decades she helped thousands at the front desk of Toledo's largest hospital so well that she was named Employee of the Year. If patients and visitors could have voted she would have been named Receptionist of the Century. 

   Martha has become one of the city's best known citizens. You can't accompany her around town without people recognizing her and remembering her kindness. The recall her compassion when they needed it most.  

   Martha was not a nursery school teacher. She was a loving mother to her four-year old students. 

   Martha was not a receptionist. She was a caregiver (and still is for our century-old mother.)

   The heart in the photo is made of glass. Martha's heart is made of gold.

-Erie Chapman

3 responses to “Days 140-144 Martha’s Heart”

  1. Julie Laverdiere Avatar

    How wonderful to have someone in your life who can emulate the love and light of God. It runs in the family! The many stories you have told us about her going out of her way to ensure people’s needs and concerns are met as they walk into the door of the hospital. The highest compliment a teacher can be given is a visit years later from students to share how much they meant to them. And she continues her light with helping children who need a lot of car and understanding. Wow. Thank you for sharing her heart of gold.

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    A love as big as the sky…expansive; manifests as a symbol the essence of caring in unconditional love. I can think of nothing quite so precious as the loving bond between a brother and sister; savor this gift that you are to each other, Erie and Martha!
    …And as Julie so eloquently states thanks for sharing two hearts of gold!

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  3. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar
    Cheri Cancelliere

    What would we do without the Marthas of our world? I still remember my first grade teacher for her great love and kindness. All of the following teachers fade together, but I remember Mrs. Weed. She taught us how to treat others with dignity when she would take one poor and neglected little boy to the restroom to help him wash up, bring him clothes to wear, treat him as if he was the most important person in the world, and firmly forbid anyone to say or do anything that would make him feel any differently. I saw her slip him milk money and patiently help him as he struggled with the most basic of tasks. Her actions made a life-long impression on the six-year-old me. Your sister Martha has made a life-long impression on everyone she has met also. We often forget that the person who greets those coming to a hospital makes a difference in countless lives at their most vulnerable moments. What a beautiful treasure Martha is with her heart of gold! I thank her…and the world thanks her.

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