Inside radical loving care2   "When fear knocks, let faith answer the door." This is the approach ABC's Robin Roberts has taken as she has battled, very publicly, a range of cancers that have attacked her body – and strengthened her spirit. 

  You can adapt Roberts' lines by saying to yourself, "When fear knocks I will let Love answer the door." 

   Fear is constantly trying to push its way into our lives – fear of pain, fear of death, fear of getting fired. Your response may be to either let fear wreak terror in your life or to try and fight it by pushing it out.

   Your heart has a better answer. Rather then attack fear yourself, let Love flow through your heart. Love is the only natural antidote to fear. 

   In order for Love to work through you quit trying to fight it on your own. Fear is fueled by ego – our human-centric worry that someone or something will be taken from us.

   Love cannot help an ego-driven spirit. Fear's primal response blocks Love and confuses your ability to trust God. 

   One of the reasons so many are fascinated by Jesus is how he dealt with fear. Instead of listening to his human ego he listened to God. This is why Radical Loving Care is radical – because it calls us to surrender to Love's deepest mystery. 

   Since you are human it takes a leap of faith to surrender your life to Love's super-human power. It is a life practice that Mother Teresa described for you when she wrote, "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."

-Reverend Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Days 202-206 – “When fear knocks…””

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for your wise counsel, Erie, which I receive as especially meaningful. “When fear knocks I will let love answer the door” seems to say it all.
    What comes to mind are these words of Mother Teresa, “People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”

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  2. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    What a beautiful reminder, Erie. It is so easy to answer the door to fear when we react rather than intentionally choosing to let love rule our hearts, minds and actions. The quote by Mother Teresa shows us the way and echoes the Scripture, “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love” (1 John 4:18).

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  3. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I finished Richard Rohr’s Immortal Diamond over the weekend. He offers this suggestion:
    “Next time a resentment, negativity, or irritation comes into your mind and you want to play it out or attach to it, move that thought or person literally into your heart space because such commentaries are almost entirely lodged in your head. There, surround it with silence…You are in a place that does not create or feed on contraries, but is the natural organ of life, embodiment, and love. Love lives and thrives in the heart space…”

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  4. Sue Avatar
    Sue

    Years ago I read the book Love is letting go of Fear..Forget the author. So life is an adventure, a rolling stone..there are lots of bumps on the way. Positive prayers for such a wonderful reflection for those who need the positive reinforcement of such wonderful words and works.

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