A wonderful life 1   If you are feeling imprisoned by winter there is a spot where sun blooms: the fireplace. During forty years in Ohio I found solace in those burning logs and named them the sunshine of winter. 

   Our fires, of course, are weak substitutes for the fire in the sky. Winter can bring moods as grey as its clouds.

   That is why it is so important for you to cultivate comfort. Outdoor walks are important. Indoors, books are always a fine choice.

   Yet, ever since the delivery men hauled a television set into our home in 1951 I've been in love.

   A huge piece of furniture encased our ten-inch version. A test pattern decorated the screen until, around five in the evening, electronic snow scattered Mount Whitney's peak heralding the arrival of Jack Benny, "Ted Mack's Original Amateur Hour" and, best of all, movies.

   To this day, it is film that brings me some of the warmest comfort. My favorite movie-when-I'm sick is "Groundhog Day."

   TCM is also a great friend. There, I can join my pal Humphrey Bogart in his search for the Maltese Falcon, sit in Rick's Cafe as he romances Ingrid Bergman and search for gold with him in the Sierra Madre.

   Because of DVDs I always have the luxury of boarding a Hitchcock train with Farley Granger and Robert Walker or strolling the streets of Bedford Falls with Jimmy Stewart. A push of the button and "Seinfeld" brings laughs.  

   Most people like to deny that they watch television. But, it is a great invention if you choose carefully. I never tire of watching Ken Burns' brilliant documentary on PBS, "The Civil War."

   Shortly before he died at age ninety my father said "Well, I guess I've watched enough Columbos." I found the comment heartbreaking but the truth is Peter Falk brought healing moments to him as he lived his final days with prostate cancer. 

   What comforts you? Why is that important?

   Your quiet joys are not guilty pleasures. Cultivating your comforts provides the rest you need to live Love. 

-Erie Chapman 

6 responses to “Days 349-353 – Winter Comforts”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Your reflection emanates such a warm glow, Erie. I am comforted by reading the kindness in your words. Today, I called my mom and she was watching the movie, “The Bishop’s Wife” with Cary Grant and Loretta Young. I adore the magic of this film. (When I look at photos of my mom as a young woman, she and Loretta Young shared a striking resemblance.)
    Things can get pretty hectic this time of year and I am truly grateful for your encouragement to enjoy simple comforts that renew and restore balance. Your reflection has a lovely nostalgic feel to it and I find myself just wanting to cozy up and watch an old movie or two. Thanks for your gift.

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  2. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    Watching movies together make for good family memories too. Our family, from 3 years old to 90 years old, loves Laurel and Hardy’s “Babes in Toyland”.
    “But I don’t love him” says Stannie when Ollie teases him about living with Silas Barnaby after tricking Barnaby at his “wedding” to Bo Peep. I still remember the magic I felt as a child when the wooden soldiers came alive to save Toyland!

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  3. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    This time of year I always search for “It’s A Wonderful Life” as the theme of touching people’s lives in what at first seems small, but is actually profound in so many ways. And, God and the Angels are with you every step of the way. I watch it only at Christmas. Then when I see a Get Smart program, I see my Dad laughing at the ridiculous secret agent. And Mom reading her endless Mystery novels in her favorite chair. There is not much winter here in Southern California, but taking time to relax, reflect and be thankful is wonderful.

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  4. Maria Doglio Avatar
    Maria Doglio

    This reflection brings up so many nostalgic memories, they are too many to mention in this comment box, but I sat here for a while, remembering, with a smile on my face – that says it all. My experience of 14 years raising children in Vt, where winters are long, cold, snowy and sometimes very difficult to get through, the memories of winter have it’s high points – like the wood fires, the x-country trails through beautiful woods, dogs leaping through snow drifts, children with red checks stuffed into snow suits, sledding down hills and trudging back up to do it all over again, the jeweled sparkle at midnight of moonlight on snow……. lovely.

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  5. Dan Avatar
    Dan

    We grew uup the the 10″ RCA Victor TV in the 3′ cabinet. Favorite Christmas movie the original A Christmas Carol.

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  6. Mario Avatar
    Mario

    Hi Erie, I just found your blog while checking out some caregiving sites and wanted to reach out. If you could, please email me when you see this. Thanks!

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