International caregiver Day 8-26-2014

[NOTE: – Because August 26 is International Caregivers Day (created by the Journal to celebrate caregivers everywhere) we are adding this recognition to this week's essay on the ocean.

Please celebrate caregivers everywhere every day. The accompanying image was created by Liz Wessel and will reappear in the Saturday-Sunday edition of the Journal]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ocean Magic

“I was born by the sea…my first idea of movement of the dance, certainly came from the rhythm of the waves.” –Isadora Duncan

   The Pacific wave yanked my four-year-old self from my father’s hand & sent me under.

   Not yet able to swim, I struggled until a truth appeared: How could I, a tiny boy, possibly triumph against such overwhelming power?

   The moment I surrendered I felt the comforting presence of the divine.

   Only four years out of the womb, I was snatched from my earthly father & glimpsed my heavenly one. Those moments live as a candle that today illuminates tears in my spirit & helps them heal. 

   Were you born from the earth or is it the sea that brought you to life?

   Attend a birth & you will see a new being rise from water not ground. The baby sails from the womb & lands on an earth that (to our senses) stands still.

   Tides keep the sea in perpetual motion. Do babies want to be rocked because they miss the rhythms of water?

   Stand on a shoreline & witness the conversation between waves & sand that constantly shifts the boundaries of both. 

   My life has been informed as much by discussions with the ocean as it has been by traveling over land.

   When I am away from the water I long for it. When I am near the water or in it I feel traces of the comfort I experienced at four.  Stormy Sea 2a - copyright erie chapman 2012

   Isadora Duncan attributed her legendary dance work to the influence of the sea. Your caregiving has rhythms that are better understood by noticing the tides than by watching the clock.

   Time is stuck to the earth. The ocean is as fluid as eternity. 

-Erie Chapman

 Photographs: Erie Chapman

6 responses to “Days 240-244 – International Caregivers Day & Ocean Magic”

  1. shirley Avatar
    shirley

    Thanks for this. I love the ocean and today being the first day of school, is always a favorite day to jump back in. And like caregiving the ocean is something you come to play with, that you have to aceept and flow with it. Everyday is a diffrent adventure. Some times I can play it cautious and I remind my self that if I don’t get churned up in the washing machine I didn’t push myself hard enough. Enjoy what it brings to you and flow with it. See you in the line up.

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  2. Anne Milligan Avatar
    Anne Milligan

    Just wonderful!rc

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I am rocked by the calming beauty of your reflection, Erie in your words and powerful images. To go down to the water’s edge and to look out upon her spaciousness offers a release from the tension of living in a densely populated area. I am thinking of the analogy of each drop of water is not separate but part of something much larger and I find comfort in this spiritual truth. I long to return to my authentic self and I am learning to surrender with a listening heart. In water we are baptized into new life. Thank you for today’s gift.

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  4. sbeng Avatar
    sbeng

    Erie: thank you for this reflection. Your experience of being submerged under water and coming up joyful must be an exhilarating experience The joy of the first lustrous cry of the baby after he or she breaks through from the bag of water is an exhilarating one also both for the mother and staff delivering the baby. To come up from the water after baptism in newness of life is a joy! To learn to follow the leading of the Spirit is the be attuned to His leading and it takes submission and patience on our part.

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  5. sbeng Avatar
    sbeng

    To caregiver all around the world you are treasured for all the hard work you have done and continue to do with patience and compassion. There is so much to accomplish within a space of time. Go with the flow as the tide of the ocean. Special appreciation to Liz Wessel for her dedication to care giving wherever the need arises. Recently she has paid a lot attention and had given her undivided attention to be at her family members bedside keeping a vigil to her loved one. May God bless you and all caregivers abundantly as we celebrate International Caregivers Day.

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you, Suan. As a midwife in England,you birthed so many precious babies into our world. How many lives you have blessed and how many times you crossed the threshold into peoples homes, lives and hearts during your dedicated career as a home health nurse, friend and healer…35 plus years of loving service! Well done, my friend, well done.

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