Spider web 3 copyright erie chapman 2013  A few years back, a friend handed me a copy of John O'Donohue's book, Beauty – The Invisible Embrace. I did not imagine how much it would become part of my life

   I have two copies. One lives on my desk at home. The other I carry always in my briefcase 

   Liz Wessel and I often quote O'Donohue. Instead of referencing one sentence of his, I offer you this selection from Chapter One (emphases added):

   When we hear the word "Beauty", we inevitably think that beauty belongs in a special elite realm where only the extraordinary dwells. Yet without realizing it, each day one of us is visited by beauty. When you actually listen to people, it is surprising how often beauty is mentioned. A world without beauty would be unbearable. Indeed the subtle touches of beauty are what enable most people to survive. Yet beauty is so quietly woven through our ordinary days that we hardly notice it. Everywhere there is tenderness, care and kindness there is beauty. Despite our natural difficulties with our parents, each of us has in our memory moments of deep love we shared with them. Perhaps it was a moment in which you became aware of some infinite tenderness in the way your mother gazed upon you, and you knew that her heart would always carry you as tenderly as it carried herself. Or it might have been a phrase of affection that has continued to sound around your life like a bright circle of blessing.

   What could be more beautiful than O'Donohue's own words? It is the way in which they inform your actual experiences of beauty – including the moment you are living right now.

-Erie Chapman

6 responses to “Day 270 – The Man Who Knew Beauty”

  1. ~liz Avatar
    ~liz

    O’Donohue’s message brings us to a deeper truth that seems counter cultural in many ways. Yet, it is the kind of Beauty we all long for, not to be judged by outward appearances but to be known. What a beautiful passage, which is especially meaningful to me at this present time. This sentence crystallizes the message for me, “Everywhere there is tenderness, care and kindness there is beauty.”
    I appreciate your encouragement, to bring our awareness to this present moment. Thank you for encircling in this bright blessing today.

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  2. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I learned a while back but probably not well enough that you have to be mindful of beauty in this world as O’Donohue describes it. If you can be mindful of beauty in the every day, you can draw on that to trust the universe and keep living love, not fear.

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  3. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    I’ll have to get that book! Thank you for sharing this.

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  4. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    Yes, Liz. And what is remarkable is that this is one of those rare books where you can open it and random and find stunning paragraphs immediately.

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  5. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    You have learned this incredibly well, Diana – and experience it everyday – making YOU all themore beautiful.

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  6. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    Julie – What a wise decision. It will inform your life in lovely ways – as does the work of David Whyte.

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