Marian's angel '93  Amid her life's coda my angelic mother-in-law, Marian Lokvam, water-colored an image I imagine as her soul flying towards eternity. Her angel greets you with the gift of her art.

   We need such gifts. Your daily work, with all its benefits, can suck the heart out of you. The more mired you become in the false security of "the company" the more you fear losing that "security."

   Fear blocks love. Your spirit risks suffocation.

   The arts are not a past-time. They are vital to maintaining your soul's balance.

   You & I need a guide.

   That is why poet David Whyte is a caregiver. He is the only being I know who has dedicated his career to helping you bridge the land of your workplace with the landscape of the arts.

   That is why he is one of your angels. He is what one friend calls "a compassionate genius."

   Invite Whyte into your world. Read his seminal book, The Heart Aroused. Listen to his voice soothe you with his poems. 

   In one poem, "This Life," Whyte alludes to one overpowered by work: "He has left the life/ he once tried to love/ now it is only a shadow/ calling for another shadow/ and this shadow/ wants to become real again."

   Have you fallen out of love with caregiving? Whyte's subject wants to live anew "before the specter haunts me to my/ grave."

   There is a milligram of fear here: Watch out or you will reach your life's end aboard a regret-flooded gurney haunted by angels you ignored.

   Whyte wrote about me in reviewing my book, Radical Loving Care that I was a "beacon of light in American healthcare." But, Whyte is the beacon – your beacon.

   Let David Whyte's light shine into your life & you will experience the soul-refreshing presence of one of your angels.

-Erie Chapman  

3 responses to “Days 285-289 – David Whyte – one of your angels…”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for introducing us to David Whyte and his inspiration, “this shadow wants to become real again…” That seems to be my quest in this second half of life. I have a heightened awareness of the lens through which I see and I find myself questioning how I am living my life (your challenge to us). When I am fearful, my initial reaction is to withdraw or else attack with negative thoughts, words or judgments of others. Yet, who am I really hurting? It’s a boomerang. Love causes us to turn around to experience a knowing that does not stem from the intellect but from the one place that is real.
    Erie, reading your description of David Whyte is a fine reflection of him and more importantly; YOU! As a visionary leader in healthcare you have taught, mentored and inspired us. I am grateful for your generous offerings of beauty and hospitality here in this space, which creates openings for sharing from our hearts. Significant to me, is the way you see Beauty in caregiving and caregivers, a Beauty that we often cannot see in ourselves. Thank you for your gift of love.
    P. S. thanks too for sharing Mariam Lokvam’s lovely, soulful watercolor.

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  2. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    What a lovely watercolor! It captures the essence of a soul flying to freedom. We must never forget our need to create beauty in the midst of so many other life demands. For me, writing poetry and working in my garden are outlets of creation. I cannot wait to read David Whyte’s book. To balance creativity with love in our roles as caregivers requires constant nourishment. Thank you, Erie, for continuing to inspire and for introducing us to others who will enrich our journey.

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    Anonymous

    Thank you Erie for encouraging all caregivers to balance life in between their heavy schedule of care giving. We all need the nourishing of our soul. This a beautiful painting by your mother-in-law. We need an escape route to relax whether through painting, gardening or travelling and replendih ourselves, harnessing our energy and ready to impart Love to others again.

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