Child's play  

   My now four-year-old grandson pasted a sticker on the back of my cellphone. It is an image of the great and powerful "Spiderman."

   Little kids (especially little boys?) long to be big and powerful like the adults that tower over them. When they discover superheroes that are even stronger than their parents they bond with them.

   One Sunday School teacher captures the attention of her seven-year-olds by talking about Jesus in superpower terms. Next to Jesus, Superman looks weak.

   He may be able to leap tall building at a single bound. But, Superman and Batman cannot heal the sick the way Jesus could.

   How many of us are still fascinated along with our children at stories of super human performance?

   We long for superpowers. In fact, we already have them. And these powers can accomplish more than Superman himself.

   Your smile will raise the energy of the next person you see. Your affirmation changes the blood chemistry of the people you compliment. Your willingness to listen and be present to others can heal their soul better than can Superman's x-ray vision. 

   "Want to change the world?" Mother Teresa asked. "Go home and love your family."

   Want to change the life of the patients and staff you work with? Go out and love them.

   Every time I look at that Spiderman sticker on my phone I smile. It was placed there by one of my superheroes – a little boy who has the power to make my heart leap tall buildings at a single bound. 

-Erie Chapman 

9 responses to “Days 75-79 – Child’s Play”

  1. JVD Avatar
    JVD

    Erie, this post sure feels close to home. I grew up surrounded by comic books and the heroes therein. I still have around 6000 of them packed up. But I knew the heroes were imaginary, like the adventure series characters my dad grew up with. Looking back I know my heroes were my mom and dad, especially during the time my mother was dying of cancer. They are gone but are still present within me. My mom instills in me the love of the alternative. Do not take things at face value. Be open. My dad teaches me to respect people in their jobs. Greet people by name at the cash register, give everyone a sense of importance and respectability and a smile. At Starbucks, when I order a drink I request extra smiles. It makes someone stop and be in the moment – and enjoy the energy lift of a smile!

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Erie, what a beautiful affirmation to your grandson as well as to caregivers. The sticker you were gifted with is a visual symbol & affirmation of his love for you! I can see why it brings you joy and it brings me joy to know that you have such a precious loving connection with your grandchildren and they with you.

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  3. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    And it only takes a smile or a word to change a person’s energy, so simple

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    Anonymous

    Erie: the sticker on your phone your grandson gave you warms your heart each time you see them! You are his super hero and vise versa. The positive things we do for others no matter how small helps as we journey together on planet earth. As caregivers we are called to meet the needs of others and we receive countless joy and they appreciation. Likewise painstakingly, you and Liz puts out these beautiful and encouraging articles each week and we as readers and caregivers enjoy reading and learning from them. Thank you.

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    Anonymous

    Erie: post below written by sbeng.

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  6. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    JVD – What a great set of comments! Love that you still have comic books and that their hero images yet inspire you, and that you carry so any riches from your life with your mom and dad. What a great gift you are giving each day to people at Starbucks and everyone else you meet.

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  7. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Yes. I cannot even imagine how many times you have done this for others, Julie.

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  8. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you so much, Suan. I love what a kind reader you are and how it reflects the numerous gifts of kindness you hand out every day.

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  9. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Liz. So glad that you are able to share the gifts of your grandchildren as well! Welcome home from your life changing journey!

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