Healing Heart -1Why is it that dreaded calls come in the middle of the night? Roused from sleep by a thrill ring of the phone, I answered with trepidation. My heart started to pound as my daughter in law said, “Liz, something has happened to Lee. He collapsed at work and had to be resuscitated, they think he had a cardiac arrest. “Miraculously our son’s life was saved by a Good Samaritan, an off-duty police officer, who initiated CPR and knew how to use the AED. 

We were beside ourselves when we learned that Lee had suffered a second cardiac arrest in less than 24 hours. This time the doctors and nurses saved his life at Sanford Cardiac Hospital in Sioux Falls, South Dakota.  Now that the crisis is over and Lee is recovering well at home, I find myself reflecting on the outstanding care Lee received.  Sanford was unique not only in how they wrapped their arms around Lee but our family as well. It is not surprising that one of Sanford’s values is family, which they describe “as the connection and commitment we have to each other through it all.”

Sanford is a state of the art healing hospital that was carefully designed for exceptional care with Healing heart 2the comfort of the patient and family in the forefront. A hotel is attached to the hospital with an enclosed sky walk for the convenience of family. As I entered, I was immediately struck by a calm, sanctuary atmosphere and gorgeous art by local community artists.  Most impressive was an incredibly moving sculpture called “Heart of Humanity” by Benjamin Victor, which symbolizes “the core values of the people of the region: the pursuit of knowledge, the advancement of medicine, the bond between people and the land and the support of loved ones, family and caregivers. The back of the sculpture reveals itself as an anatomically correct depiction of the human heart.”

 I found the soft piano music soothing and the beams of sunlight streaming down from above a consoling warmth. There are no set visiting hours you can come and go as you please.  Family members are welcomed with a guest area equipped with a coffee station and snacks. Meals were not served off of a cart at prescribed times. Whenever Lee was hungry he could pick up the phone and order a meal off the menu.  As we kept vigil by Lee’s bedside there was a couch available for resting. Every person we met was professional, kind and attentive.

During Lee’s stay I met two women who I will remember. Carmen greeted families in the surgical waiting room and kept family members updated. She was hospitable towards us during Lee’s surgery but I was too distracted with concern to engage. The next day we ran into her by the elevator. She remembered us and inquired about Lee. When she noticed my Lady of Guadalupe pendant she shared a story in which, she escorted some Catholic Sister’s out of Mexico to the US. The experience left an indelible imprint on her soul and sharing her story with us touched my heart.

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Volunteer, Dorothy Bostic RN practiced nursing for 60 years and graduated from Sanford Museum Sanford nursing school in 1955. The first thing Dorothy said to me was “Let me give you a big hug.” Leaning on her cane she escorted me on a tour of the one room medical museum. She was a healer and I knew I encountered one of the greats. 

Sanford’s promise to patients and employees is to deliver a flawless experience that inspires. They certainly kept their promise to us! I am grateful for the outpouring of love, support and prayers we received from our family and friends. Thank you dear hearts.

 Liz Sorensen Wessel

13 responses to “Days 124-125 Heart of Humanity”

  1. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you for inspiring us with this story of your son’s crisis and recovery. You brought Sanford Cardiac Hospital, including the impressive Benjamin Victor sculpture, to light for us and gave us a great sense of a healing environment in a place that is remote to most of us. Best of all, this place helped heal your dear son and, perhaps, you as well.

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  2. Sue Avatar
    Sue

    What a blessing for you, Woody, Lee and his family and your whole family to be in such a healing place , especially in such a crisis… My prayers and heartfelt love go out to your family today. May the healing spirit of the hospital follow you always.

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  3. JVD Avatar
    JVD

    What a journey the week and this year has been for you and your family. Thank you for sharing your life experiences with us. That such an unforeseen circumstance led you to a Sacred Encounter with Sanford Hospital. How wonderful that this place of healing exists and gave you time to help allay the fear and pain, to give you a chance to breathe. The “Heart of Humanity” sculpture reminds me of Divine Meditation, a Sacred Heart Touch. How beautiful that they cared so much for a strangers family as their own.

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  4. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    Dear Liz, what a wonderful experience for all of you. Sounds like all of you had a healing of some kind. I am lifting you all up to the arms of Jesus.

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  5. Cheri Cancelliere Avatar

    Liz, You are so amazing. Even when you are going through your own challenges and dark nights, you seek the light and goodness of every situation and use each experience to become a blessing to others. I am so happy that Lee is doing better and has received such excellent medical AND spiritual care, the kind of quality care that embraces the needs of the entire family. This is a reminder of how vitally important that hug, that smile, that spirit of excellence, and that heart of service is to others as well as ourselves.

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  6. Maureen McDermott rsj Avatar
    Maureen McDermott rsj

    Liz, what reassuring news to hear that Lee is recovering well at home – what a shock to each of you and all of you. And delighted was I to read that you experienced something of the care, compassion and kindness you extend to so many through your ministry of loving care. May Loving Arms continue to embrace all of you.

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  7. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you, Erie, Sanford is the largest non profit rural hospital in the country. It is a phenomenal place for care & healing. Like you, they understand the connection between art & science and the importance of caring for the whole person & family. I think you would love this hospital as it it so aligned with all that you teach and inspire in us!

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  8. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you Sue, more than anything in times of crisis we realize it is the people in our lives that matter. Thank you for being in mine.

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  9. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for your Sacred Heart Touch, JVD which I receive with gratitude.

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  10. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Julie, thank you for lifting me & my family up into Christ’s loving arms.

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  11. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for your kindness, Cheri, for your gladness for Lee and observations on RLC, amen to that!

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  12. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for wrapping your loving arms around all of us, Maureen. The experience was traumatic for all. Yet, we understand how blessed we are in receiving this miracle. Fortunately, Lee is alive and able to be their for his family, especially his beautiful children.

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  13. Woody Wessel Avatar
    Woody Wessel

    I thank God for those good people.

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