Thanksgiving table"We gather together to ask the Lord's blessing…"

   Just to be invited to sit at such an elegant Thanksgiving table is a blessing. To imagine those who will occupy each chair is to experience the gratitude that comes from the presence of family.

   This table from my grandparents has hosted  Thanksgivings since 1911. This year seventeen will gather around it. You can tell by the high chair at the far corner that one of these is still a baby. We assume she cannot yet understand Thanksgiving. But, maybe she can. 

   Little Caroline, barely a year into this world, will surely experience what is most important about this occasion: The warmth of love's presence.

   The air will send her the taste of pleasant scents. The same air will host laughter & prayers & the sound of caring voices.

   She will receive the touch of those eager to caress her baby's skin. She will hear the songs of Thanksgiving. Beyond words, she will experience the rhythms of a language she cannot yet speak.  

   Caroline will also see who is smiling & who is not. Who is angry & who is sad & who wears the secret mask of worry.

   She has more than five senses, of course. Her soul carries the knowing that matters – the awareness that she is loved. 

   Caroline does not need "to ask the Lord's blessing." In an important way, neither do we. We can look into her eyes & into the eyes of everyone who gathers around the table of Thanksgiving.

   Consult the blood that nourishes you, listen to the messages enriching your every fiber & feel the skin that wraps you for life's journey.

   Blood & soul & skin know we need not ask God to bring us anything. We can, instead, recognize the Thanksgiving that is already before us & within us. 

-Erie Chapman

4 responses to “Days 322-326 – The Table”

  1. sbeng@att.net Avatar
    sbeng@att.net

    Erie: “The warmth of Love’s presence, the taste of pleasant scents, laughter, prayer, sounds of caring voices….” May you all rejoice remembering the old times, ushering and welcoming your new grandchild into the family. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you. Suan

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  2. erie Avatar
    erie

    Thank you so much, Suan. You are such a sweet person to post this lovely comment. I know your Thanksgiving will also be wonderful because YOU will be there.

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    This is a precious gift to your granddaughter that she will someday read as a prayer of Thanksgiving for you; her loving grandfather. This is also a remarkable gift to each of us who find the warmth of Love’s presence in these thoughts you share. I love the sacred thread that runs through your reflection and the symbolic reminders of history, of many gatherings together and the honoring of steadfast family traditions.
    I also appreciate your inclusiveness of the wide range of human emotions we can experience. Not only Love, laughter and joy, but perhaps a momentary sadness, loneliness or fleeting anger or the burden of a worry we may silently carry; not meant to accentuate but to acknowledge life’s paradoxes. There are so many things we take for granted in life. May this be the season of our turning, our awakening to all God’s gifts. You leave us to savor a truth, of what matters in life.
    I send Thanksgiving blessings to you and those you love, Erie. God bless you and us all!

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  4. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    Ah! To see the morning again with child eyes. A special day that has a new experience. All these people coming by I have not seen before. Yeuch!!! The hugs and kisses. Maybe they have never seen me before. They look familiar but wait…they were just in pictures before. How can they be in a picture and be here as well? I guess it’s like my stuffed animal, mine is real and the picture books are just pretend. And the smells coming from mom and dad’s kitchen. Tofu turkey and gluten-free stuffing. No, that would be at my uncles ex… That means real food for Thanksgiving Day.
    Enjoy the day everyone. And don’t get too stuffed by football on the tele.
    Tomorrow is a brand new day for all of us. Bake in the Love.

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