In order for the story of his kindness to speak to us across the ages he needed to be more than nice. He needed to enlist the sinews of courage & the gristle of persistence to risk helping a stranger from a radically different background. He needed to recruit his muscle to lift the wounded man, shoulder him onto his animal, walk him to the inn, pay for his care & return to check on the man he saved.   

Flames 2 - copyright erie chapman 2016   Jesus created The Good Samaritan to teach us, particularly caregivers, that real compassion is a muscular marriage of strength & kindness. Sweet gestures require brave action to become true expressions of love. 

   Humanity's sun shines when tenderness glows with strength. 

  "That my kindness exists comes not simply by choosing kindness," poet Anis Mojgani tells us, "but by choosing it over the cruelty I am capable of."

   Martin Luther King, Jr. modeled this choice. As others clamored for cruelty King campaigned for tough-minded tenderness. 

   It takes bravery to overcome our basest desires: our lust for revenge, our ego's instinct to counterattack when feeling hurt, our temptation to take advantage of the vulnerable. And there is the blindness of raw arrogance – that priest who ignored the pain of the wounded man in favor of his own self-importance.   

   The most gentle sunlight is born from the most powerful blazes. Even fireplace flames rise from wood split with strength.

   Love is so inconvenient. Storms & stridency threaten it at every turn. That is why no path is more challenging to walk each day than the one burning with love's heat as well as its light. 

-Reverend Erie Chapman

9 responses to “Days 18-22 – A Muscular Kindness”

  1. Sherry Avatar
    Sherry

    So blessed that I have returned to this page for part of my morning meditation. Thank you all. Sherry

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Erie, your reflection is a couplet of beauty and strength, of wisdom and an acknowledgment of our humanness as well as a call to live our potential, the one God has seen in us since the day we were born. Your message invites discernment and the courage to look at our internal motivations. You inspire us to not only have good intentions to take action. Today we honor Martin Luther King who so powerfully lived in this way throughout his courageous life.
    Your photo is an exquisite accompaniment of beauty, strength, tenderness and love. A universe revealed within, of stars being born, comet’s blazing trail, and phoenix rising up to take flight while the dance of life unfolds.

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  3. sbeng@att.net Avatar
    sbeng@att.net

    Erie: I appreciate the illustration of the Good Samaritan-real compassion is a real marriage of strength and kindness. “Sweet gestures require brave action to become true expressions of love. Humanity shines when tenderness glows with strength” As caregivers we put our opinions and reactions to circumstances aside and we serve for the benefit of other’s well being. To quote Maya Angelou “There is something gracious and graceful about serving”

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  4. Teresa Reynolds Avatar
    Teresa Reynolds

    “The most gentle sunlight is born from the most powerful blazes”. This struck me as more than true as first light crept over the hill. If our strength were only reinterpreted and equated with our “muscular kindness,” what might the debates look like this next year. Martin Luther King Jr. surely is one of the heroes of this world as he practiced your message. Thank you.

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  5. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    And we are so grateful for your return and for posting a comment, Sherry.

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  6. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    What a great gift you offer with your affirmation of these words – noticing the photograph, connecting Dr. King’s memory and seeing the strength in beauty.

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  7. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    And YOU have always been such a gracious and graceful servant, Suan.

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  8. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    Thank you for this eloquent affirmation on MLK Day, Teresa.

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  9. Reba McBride Avatar
    Reba McBride

    I really appreciate the idea that the work of compassionate care is more than simply being nice. Certainly, being nice, being kind, having an open heart is so very important but the work of really caring for people requires a depth of muscle as you mention, it requires some work! I am so thankful for your work. Your research into the effort it takes to avoid compassion fatigue and the requirements we have to hold ourselves accountable to each other inspire me to continue to want to return each day to help others.

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