Lace & woman 2   Historically, most poets have been men. But, few men are poets.

   Men honor softness in women. Yet, only a small number admit to honoring it in themselves.

   As a former football player, trial lawyer, healthcare CEO & father I have fitted the role of "typical" male. I never tell most male friends that beyond the end zone I love soft rain & enjoy stroking rose petals. Why trigger their disdain?  

   Early Jewish clerics (all men, of course) even hardened God's name by subtracting the vowels so that "God" became the unpronounceable YHWH. The gentler spirits among them inserted softer letters to yield "Yahweh."

   Men start wars. Men commit the crimes I used to prosecute. But, for men like me the television news from Syrian deserts & Chicago streets needs Love's sweet embrace as well as tough intervention.

   Hostility's fist opens before healing lace.

   The angry world needs Love's kindest face. 

   Mean is always present (the knife edge of the leaf.) Kind is shy & needs nudging to offer her hands. Today's television violence needs God's gentlest fingers.

   Just now an oyster is handling a new pearl. A trio of dolphins dances in a flow of secrets. Fish breathe beneath the roof of the ocean. A caregiver cools a fevered brow. Larkspur blooms in a forest where generous lovers touch the soft in each other.

   New life inhales. Last life exhales. 

   Here is lace.

   Here is Yahweh's grace. 

   This is the news that matters.

-Erie Chapman

Photograph by Erie (2014)

8 responses to “Days 102-106 – The Male Need for Softness”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Love can disarm the toughest rogue as defenses collapse in the tears of a child. The world cries out for the softness of compassion & prayers of forgiveness. How have we veered so far from the truth of our knowing…, the revelation of a heart’s awakening sighs for spring has arrived.
    Thank you, Erie for reflecting love’s exquisite Beauty.

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  2. Julie Laverdiere Avatar

    Especially today, the world seems to be so harsh and so unforgiving. And yet, the Lord tells us that good exists, that softness and beauty abounds. It is present in nature daily, so we have a choice to see the softness or the darkness.

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  3. erie Avatar
    erie

    “The world cries out for the softness of compassion …” Well said, Liz. Thank you.

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  4. erie Avatar
    erie

    Thank you for having such a kind heart, Julie.

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  5. Karen york Avatar
    Karen york

    We are inundated with news of the hard and the ugly and the worst parts of human nature. Your work and this fabulous entry are a tribute to all that is kind. All that is soft. All that is love. All this is God. Thank you for the reminder soft is not weak rather exudes strength of heart and character.

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  6. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    When I first read Erie’s reflection I immediately thought of the movie ‘V for Vendetta’. The eye for an eye, revenge, denial, exclusion and fear that permeates the people and the nation slowly gives way as love and caring gets their foot in the door. The ‘male’ aspects of the characters evolve and the more feminine qualities shine and show a better path to life and living. One can find many nuances, the differences between old and new testament beliefs in God in the storyline. But the tapestry of the story is its lace. The fine texture that the women in the story bring about a change for the better.
    Mother may I? Yes, you may. And we need to…

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  7. erie Avatar
    erie

    Brilliant, Jolyon! So eloquent and such a fine addition to the Journal. Thank you.

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  8. erie Avatar
    erie

    Thank you so much, Karen, for making such a great contribution to the Journal this week. You are such a kind heart yourself and do so much to advance the mission of Alive Hospice for so many years. Yes, soft requires more strength than hard on so many occasions.

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