THC at Ohio 23rd Antietam (002)Note: Guest reflection by Terry Chapman: Last May, my son Daniel and I traveled by train to Gettysburg and Antietam Battlefields in PA and MD. The photo shows me saluting my 2nd Great Uncle Degrasse S. Chapman, who was killed by confederate fire near the town of Sharpsburg, MD, above Antietam Creek, as he valiantly fought with the Ohio 23rd Volunteer Regiment from Lorain, OH.  He left a wife and young daughter but gave the ultimate gift to his descendants and to the young America he chose to defend.  

Caregiving takes many varied forms in life, and his military bravery and loyalty to our country, certainly marked him as a hero and a unique caregiver. My Chapman clan has fought in US wars including the Revolutionary War, War of 1812, WWI; WWII; Vietnam, and others served honorably, including me, in peace time. Yes, I am proud of their gallantry.

What can we, the descendants and admirers of such supreme bravery do to honor and further the goals they died for? For one, we can all thank every person who served or serves in our country’s military, all branches and ranks and range of duties.  We can vote for local, state, and national politicians who will further the “better causes” of our nation: working together with differing opinions toward a higher justice: one nation, under God, committed to providing a clean environment, an accessible, well operated health care system, better educational, housing, food delivery for the hungry, and vocational opportunities for every citizen, and responsive caring for all our veterans.  To do anything less is unthinkable!

The next time you take a trip anywhere in America, pause and reflect on the many, like my Uncle, who sacrificed their lives to make America possible and unique among nations.  Help recognize all veterans and their families; donate to their causes and attend 4th of July activities near you. But most of all: give them a grand salute! 

   -Terry Chapman

3 responses to “Military Service as Caregiving”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Terry, thank you for your most thoughtful honoring of veterans this Fourth of July weekend and for your service (as well as other family members) to our country.
    I wish to thank the following family members for their service: Woodrow Wessel Woody Wessel Jr., Bill Gayle, Phil Sorensen, Philip Sorensen Jr., Helen Wessel and to the many who are not mentioned here; for sons & daughters, husbands & wives, fathers & mothers, brothers & sisters, friends: loved ones all. Those who were injured or never made it home on either side of the war.
    Let our lens through which, we see one another become increasingly clear as one family united in our humanity.
    God Bless!

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    Terry chapman

    “Let our lens through which, we see one another become increasingly clear as one family united in our humanity.” What a powerful sentence, Liz! This has to be one of your best thoughts ever, in my opinion. Yes, let’s all value our common humanity above all else.

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    erie chapman

    A powerful emphasis on an under-appreciated facet of caregiving. Thank you so much for this, Terry, and for the way you honored here, and continue to honor our relatives as well.

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