Starling Age 4

"When I walk outside the studio and a child comes up

and gives me a hug… I know that is the field I want to be growing in.

It’s not the fancy people in this world who seem to nourish my soul- I want

to learn how to be the best receiver that I can ever be

because I think graceful receiving is one of the most wonderful gifts we can

give anybody. If we receive what somebody gives us in a graceful way

we've given that person a wonderful gift”

-Fred Rogers

Fred Rogers was a man of fine sensibilities and truly an enlightened being. If you have not seen the movie, "A Beautiful Day in The Neighborhood," I highly recommend it. 

The above photo was taken of my granddaughter, Starling at age four. I was visiting my son and grandchildren in S. Dakota for Thanksgiving. I have the best memory of that particular day. We were going to the neighborhood park. As we strolled along towards the playground, we encountered a young couple and their small child in a pram. Starling immediately started a conversation, "Hello" followed by, "Can I tell you something?" They responded in the affirmative in a charming English accent, a clue that they were not from around there. They listened with an air of surprise as Starling shared the glorious wonder of her wide-open heart. She expounded on all sorts of interesting little thoughts in a free flowing a stream of consciousness. 

After five minutes or so of her light-hearted, sing song chirping, we bid our goodbyes. Then Starling enthusiastically told me how she had just made a new best friend (the baby girl in the carriage). It was like that on the playground too or wherever we went because every person Starling met became "a new best friend." It was such an enchanting, carefree age of enlightenment and a beautiful gift to receive.

Liz Sorensen Wessel

6 responses to “Days 285-286 Graceful Receiving”

  1. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    Absolutely delightful experience Liz. And what an adorable grandchild – how sweet is Starling! You too are a gift Liz, a gift that I receive with joy, gratitude and continued amazement. May you continue to be the vehicle for our ‘graceful receiving’, Liz.

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  2. Julie Avatar
    Julie

    Oh yes, nothing like the eyes and ears of a child to tell us how to be. Adorable photo!

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  3. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    Thank you so much for sharing Star’s kind light with us, Liz. What a gift she must be to all her experience her present and how lucky to have such a sweet granddaughter!
    Special thanks, as well, for the lines for Mr. Rogers himself including, “If we receive what somebody gives us in a graceful way we’ve given that person a wonderful gift”
    False modesty causes to many of us to deflect compliments. Thus, the gift is stolen from both.

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Greetings Maureen and thank you for your blessing, which I too receive with gratitude and sincere appreciation. Starling is 6 now and I look forward to this Thanksgiving visit!

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Ah, thank you Julie and so true! There is so much natural wonder that children can offer us.

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you, Erie and thanks for appreciating Fred Rogers insights on receiving a gift. He points the way, doesn’t he?
    I wish to acknowledge how grateful I am for the way in which you gracefully receive and give; as the most exquisite bouquet of flowers specially picked for a person that in essence says “you are a person of worth, seen as beautiful and valued.” Thank you for your wondrous gifting that is so uniquely and authentically you.

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