Self Port 4:17:20 good? (2)   Portraits are windows offering another way to "see" each other. If there is anything unusual about this self portrait it is that the subject is not smiling the way adults typically do when aware their picture is being made.

   The half-shadowed, serious face suggests something. But, your experience of it depends on you. 

   Although there are four physical dimensions we typically experience the world in three. We even think of three dimensions as the "real" world.

   What is happening to our relationships during the current widespread isolation? 

   When I FaceTime my grandchildren, quarantined in Italy, I have the illusion of a three dimensional encounter. I see & hear them. But, the experience remains two dimensional. I cannot hug them as full physical beings. 

   Yes. There is a much more to encounters than physical presence. I may experience greater depth in a letter than in a direct encounter.

   Yet, our isolation behind screens is worrisome. The phenomenon was in full sway before the pandemic struck & will continue afterwards. 

   Does this widening phenomenon of two-dimensional encounters threaten our humanity?

   Electronic devices fascinate. Why do we obsessively engage our cell phones? We have much more control that world than the one beyond it!

   Does electronic communication subconsciously convert the other being into an abstraction? Does it make it easier for soldiers to launch missiles that kill thousands? After all those are not people just a group of pixels on a screen?  

   What happens to compassion when we fall ill & our caregivers know us only as electronic images that can be turned off & on like a television?

-Erie Chapman 

3 responses to “Days 111-115 – The New Two Dimensional Relationships”

  1. Jude Avatar
    Jude

    We, as a civilization, are at a most pivotal place, and which road shall we take? Everyone lay down your weapons and hatred, no matter how many centuries you have been at war, and come together…shall I?, right now. (Sorry-it just happened) with love, Jude

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  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    We all need physical closeness and contact with fellow humans; without it on a regular basis, we are diminished in our humanity and become hollow vessels without the fulfilling comfort of being truly in touch with another.
    We face an existential situation: Will we as a species choose to regain this vital connection by reaching out to others in any way we have to use and all working to increase our inclusion of others by all means so that we may improve living conditions for all on planet Earth. Or will we choose to head further into our bunkers of individuality and change human relations forever after?

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    This is such a powerful and thought provoking reflection Erie. The questions you pose give us pause. It seems with all innovation there is a potential for benefit and harm depending how we engage with (in this case) technology. Telehealth during this crisis is providing a vehicle to serve but as you point out there is a tremendous potential risk involved.
    On some levels this whole situation seems so surreal and has catapulted us into some strange new world, some other dimension from the twilight zone. In other ways it is deepening our humanity by awakening us to the many gifts that we have taken for granted.
    The ethical concerns you raise are paramount and require ongoing examination, inquiry and discernment. We need to tread carefully, and you bring into sharp focus what is in danger; our humanity.

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