Kristin Urquiza - daughter of COVID victim   It was a natural reaction from Trump's enemies to the news he had tested positive for COVID 19: "Serves him right," one said. "Is it okay for me to say I'm ecstatic?" another asked. 

   Since human nature drives us to fight perceived enemies is it not okay for us to rejoice when they suffer? 

   The Radical Loving Care philosophy tracks Jesus' command to "pray for our enemies…" It is the Christian Messiah's toughest command. Yet, to claim belief in God as Love means accepting Love's challenge that we transcend our baser instincts: That we reject revenge & choose forgiveness. What a crucial teaching for caregivers.

   Enter Kristin Urquiza (pictured) whose father died this summer from Covid. ““My dad was a healthy 65-year-old,” she said. “His only pre-existing condition was trusting Donald Trump — and for that he paid with his life." 

   What if Ms. Urquiza was a professional caregiver assigned to Mr. Trump? Professionalism calls her to give her best. Beneath that, could hatred impact her ability to deliver the healing called for by Radical Loving Care?

   Every hospital, especially those offering care beneath the cross, promises every patient the best. We know that mission is violated every day by well-meaning caregivers that find Radical Loving Care too hard.

   It is hard. Perhaps more difficult than practicing curative medicine. And it is the calling of all who claim the title of caregiver.

Rev. Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Days 278-282 – Praying for our enemies?”

  1. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    Sounds like this post could have been a chapter in “The Song of God” (Gita). The moral dilemma of which side is right and which path to follow. To follow ones Dharma through selfless action or to renounce.
    Devotion to the Nightingale Pledge, “zealously seek to nurse those who are ill wherever they are in need.” Yes, it is hard to heal in the face of so much hatred. In healing, we heal ourself and our neighbor. Temporary visitor to the third floor ward they may be.

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    In every person there is a basic goodness and beneath it all, it is there. Admittedly I’ve had a fleeting unkind thought and moments of compassion. Putting politics aside he is a human being and I would not wish harm on anyone. I believe that if caring for him I would be a caregiver to a person in need rather than caring for his persona and look for the light of Christ within. I work with fabulous caregivers who would give the best care possible because that is what they are called to do… thanks for bringing the principles of RLC to the forefront Erie for us to reflect upon.

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  3. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thanks so much for this comment and insight, Jolyon. SO grateful for you loyal and inspirational support of the Journal.

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  4. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank YOU, Liz. If you did not occasionally harbor unkind thoughts you would not be human, right?:-) In fact, your kind thoughts and prayers and actions are why I think of you as Saint Liz.

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