From Fear to Love

When we gather together with friends and family the best times are when the stories start flowing.  Remembrances of times shared, daring adventures, unfathomable risks in youth that we lived to tell about, the good and crazy times, as laughter erupts often to the point of tears.  Especially treasured are the stories of loved ones who have passed that are retold time and again, as they enliven our spirits and enrich our lives. 

Recently, I listened to a podcast with James Finley who shared a touching story about when his wife Maureen died last year. He was inconsolable, until one day he realized that his intense grief was a testimony of his love for Maureen and how he still loved her. Then he thought about how she too still loved him and with that realization he began to feel her presence with him in his daily life. I find comfort in Jim’s experience and the recognition that Love continues beyond the veil of this earthly realm.

The following 2.5 min video is a grandson remembering his grandmother’s stories that she shared about her life. What is extraordinary, is how love flowed between them in such a beautiful way. 

As I reflect about the unfolding of my life a question arises, what will I leave behind? The one thing of value is the love we share with one another.

As Erie would encourage, Live love not fear.

Liz Sorensen Wessel
The gorgeous photo is by Chrissy Maio, my beautiful and talented niece.

8 responses to “Days 331-332 The Best Times”

  1. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    How true, Liz – our work is what we take with us. As you and your family gather like so many others throughout the USA this weekend may you be enriched by the love, care, generosity and challenges that create relationships that live on and on.

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  2. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    What do we leave behind?
    Unfinished conversations.
    My friend Elaine and I would talk about classical music and musicals. Her favorite was Stephen Sondheim.
    To remember the shows, the characters, the theaters. That knowledge is lost to the wind.
    She would have loved the new musical Six…..

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  3. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    You ask the question “What will I (you) leave behind. Like James Finley, he came to realize…The Divinity of Love shines through the gift of our time for others. Likewise, we are enhanced from that Divine Love. Namaste is not just a word. It is alive for all of us. Just ask Ebenezer Scrooge.

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  4. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    YOU will leave behind such great light that it will pass like an Olympic torch from person to person far into the future. You are a natural saint, Liz. Your love for others is epic & as fine a legacy as anyone can leave. Meanwhile, this is fine essay and another fine photograph by your niece!

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  5. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    Thank you for your most thoughtful and heartfelt blessings., Marurren and for the Light of your presence!

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  6. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    Jolyon, I can only imagine how much you must miss Elaine, her loving presence and the richness of your friendship and conversations that must have brought a deeper quality and enjoyment to your mutual love of music and meaningful conversation. May those conversations continue between you both in Spirit and in the sacred chambers of your heart.

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  7. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    Thank you for the beautiful reminder. BTW, our family tradition is to go to the “Christmas Carol” South Coast Repetoire each year to rekindle the light of this deeply held truth, lest we forget.

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  8. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    Thank you, Erie I have been the recipient of your incredible affirmations through the years which is a healing suave to conteract the critical voice in my head. Thank you for the uniquely special gift that is you!
    Profound gratitude,
    Liz

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