“Heroism could be redefined for our time as the ability to stand paradox”. Robert A. Johnson

 Just as a plant seeks the sun, we are naturally drawn towards the light. Yet, according to Johnson, “Until we have undertaken the task of accepting and honoring the shadow within us, we cannot be balanced or whole, for what is hidden never goes away, but merely—and often painfully –turns up in unexpected places”.

As adults, we devote our energy to establishing our identity, building careers, achieving goals, and for some, raising a family. One of the more encouraging aspects of aging is a natural movement towards healing and wholeness. There is a need to reclaim the lost parts of ourselves that we left behind.  As we live and experience many of life’s peaks we also struggle with the grief of loss. Yet, all are invaluable encounters that lead us to the next threshold.   

As you may be aware, through the symbolism of the mandala (sacred circle) I draw limitless possibility and expressions of Spirit. The paradoxes of life and the pairing of opposites is a reflection of our inner life. The circle holds a space for the whole of life, encompassing both light and dark in union.

Eventually, we may come to recognize a complexity beyond nature’s polarities. Situations rarely are as they first appear; nor are they simply black or white. If we begin to look beneath the surface of our experience, we may find a deeper a meaning in the mystery and paradox of it all. Johnson posits that at the heart of all spiritual traditions is an experience of communion; a desire to heal, reconcile, reconnect, bond and return to wholeness.

He believes that paradox is the entrance to owning one’s shadow with a renewed sense of dignity and worth. He describes an inner turmoil that arises when our values are in conflict and we can't find resolution.  “When the unstoppable bullet hits the impenetrable wall, we find the religious experience”.  Johnson sees these trials as opportunities for real growth.

 Johnson concludes that it requires great bravery to be with paradox and to accept an “invitation to that, which is greater than oneself".

Isn't this an invitation to Love unconditionally?

~liz Sorensen Wessel

Pencil drawing by ~liz