Each of us is occasionally confronted by a situation of dire need where we have two choices: one is to stay in the comfort of our “boat” and do nothing, or get out of our comfort zone and try to provide help. Strong caregivers regularly get out of their boat—their home, their office chair, their normal routine—and actively offer aid, support or sustenance to anyone who is needy, either in their professional charge, or as a volunteer helper or caregiving family member.  Their help can sometimes mean the difference between life or death or could also help provide a better life to someone, thanks to your unselfish care.

We all have different strengths and weaknesses and not all caregivers have the physical or mental strength to always get out of their boat when a dire need is obvious, but we should then reach out to others for assistance in meeting that need! 

 In a hospital or medical clinic setting, getting necessary help is not difficult but what should you do if not in a setting with any nearby assistance?  You can offer emotional support and stay with the person while trying to get what is needed to solve the problem.  Do you have the emotional strength to do it?

Only you know.  Take stock of your capacities to help and work to further develop your caregiving skills and capacities so that the next time you are confronted with a challenge, you will rise to the occasion and offer all that you can to lessen the problem or hardships. 

Guest Post by Terry Chapman PhD

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